I'm having this problem that a lot women want to be with me , I feel terrible because I don't want to be a reason why they are sad, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

I have seen some girls struggle with not being with me and it disturbs me that they have to go through that , I'm concerned it's going to affect my image if this continues. I really don't do anything to attract them 🤦‍♂️ and also don't want to do anything to look unattractive. I don't know what to do. If I get a woman they are going to be jealous of her and they are going to be heartbroken so I don't know 😔.

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3 mo

I meant I cannot be with all of them , I am big on having only one woman , I never had anyone and just want one woman so these women are going to be met with disappointment. I mean I can date them but in turn it will not be good for my mental health. I'm working hard towards my future like many good men in their 20s. Society has great expectations of men , women also have these expectations of men and I have things to do and being with a woman is not first on the list right now.

[smne35]

What you do is be mature don't let it get to your head swell it, be responsible, I know exactly how you feel I still have w women come into me even when I'm with someone, I come out from store and find women's phone number on my car, I don't act in it I'm flattered but in my view to act in it always is kind of taking advantage of a person and or situation, as I say, just because you can do something with ease don't mean you have to, and when I was younger it felt really good having woken come onto you hit in you, without you have to do much of anything, but you can't afford yourself to get cocky arrogant or be irresponsible, it's not right to take advantage of anyone, it's just me but I like to earn what I have who I'm with, never like to take the easy way or accept anything that comes too easy, why I just smile and toss the numbers away or be respectful acknowledge women when they come onto me, and if I'm involved will say so and if not then I might go with it once in awhile, but not just because the opportunity presented itself, so you need to learn to humble yourself be respectful mature about it and be a gentleman not a hound

[musclesimp]

Fuck on it. Yeah it sucks a bit just because you as a human also feel pain and fear, doesn't mean you have to pick up every reason to mourn that you're able to, you have to "choose your battle", choose what to care for and what to slap your cock against. Akin to seeing a mouse trying to escape when you throw a cat at it, maybe it sucks but it's one of the least harmful ways to go, or do you prefer to drown it? Shoot it? Chop it?

If these women don't drool over you they'll drool for another guy. That's their consequence of not having willpower. Tell them you can be just friends, and just telling them that might cause them to screw off permanently.

[jennifer_bloom]

There was a very good looking guy at my school that was pursued by lots of woman. He had a private profile online with no photos, no LinkedIn, no way for any girl to contact him unless he wants to stay in touch. Most woman have self control and won't stalk you if you are very hard to find. It works the same way with women, guys don't go for hot girls, they go for girls they think will agree to date them. If you don't give any clue or hint or dangle any bait, the girl will find somebody else who actually likes her.

[Asker]

That's good because I don't want nobody right now. 😂 I like the attention , none of them know that I'm on G@G , I deleted my Facebook after it got hacked 🙃. After that I've not trusted having much up. 😂 @jennifer_bloom you are the only woman that did not attack me on this question , some women on g@g should heal bc damn they are Alpha-widowed 🤭 . Thanks for your opinion, I appreciate it 🙏.

[Anonymous]

They don't want to be with you. Ur using apps that are faceless

[Asker]

😂😂😂 what are talking about?
I'm not using my face on here because I did not decide to do it as yet , I literally just joined to ask and answer questions 🙄.

[Opinion Owner]

No one is interestes in you. Ur using faceless apps to chat with people and assuming they want you. They don't and don't even know how u look

[Asker]

I am not chatting to women , what on earth are you talking about. You are being rude by continuing this nonsense. I did not ask for any of this. I don't know who upset you but I am not your virtual punching bag.

[molonski2]

Just be nice to them all , you dont have to commit , then no one will be sad , you are a popular guy and thats a good thing , use your sexual power for good , not evil.

[Asker]

Okay I'll do my best to be the friendliest friendzoner. If I'm nice to every girl then they won't take me that seriously as a potential partner, that's a good idea 👏👏👏. I will have a woman someday when I feel ready but until then I'll use this strategy.

[molonski2]

Yeah , but none of that will matter , because a guy like you will always have a plethora of options , so just select a smart , sexy , and hopefully richer one , when you decide you want to go for it.

[Avicenna]

I don't think you have anything to actually worry about here...

[Asker]

😂 What if they become bitter and then try to mess with my image. Women can join forces in the name of *me too* or maybe I'm overthinking this one. 😅 I have seen guys being roasted by women and in my country it's brutal because over here Gender Based Violence is the highest even Türkiye has less GBV drama than my country statistically. Women feel entitled to come at men in 🇿🇦 because of the bad men that ruin women and that created a huge problem over here so a lot of women prefer foreign men. So every citizen is one mistake away from being roasted 😶. I think maybe I'm overthinking again 🙃.

[AviatorTom]

That's a problem few, if any, guys gave. If this is not trolling, just pick one woman and remember that taking care of yourself is most important in life. If you don't do that, you can't care for others.

[Asker]

This is not trolling as a matter of fact I'm sick of people assuming it is so I'm going to disavow and mute this question I'm thick of it 😮‍💨

[spartan55]

There's the righteous indignation...

[Staximus]

Stop buttering them all up like southern biscuits

[musclesimp]

Bean2k21 talked about being a southerner and his only begotten bastard child BoobSlayer was obsessed with fiery biscuits.

But you're very right, if they had penises he'd see them all with raging erections and he'd know that his only choice is to completely isolate until their erections subside.

[Anonymous]

I don't know but it is very clear that pink Anon wanted you.

[Anonymous]

It’s hard being an alpha male isn’t it?

[Asker]

The women over here are attacking me like what did I do to them. I literally just asked a question and bam they attack me 😂😂😂. I am not even lying , I meant to say a lot of women like me and I don't know what to do because a few years ago this one girl liked me and after that many more but before then not many girls liked me so obviously I was like hey my luck changed but now I'm busy with life and I don't know it's like the time I was available they did not like me now they showing up like I don't know anymore. Anyway the one girl started smoking and was very depressed then she made some bad decisions and I felt like the worst person alive because she made it so clear that she wanted me that her friends spoke about me to her in front of me but now she's mad at me and I don't blame her. I don't know anymore , I only want one woman in the future that's all. I never wanted any of this🤦‍♂️.

[MrShaun]

I know.

It's a burden some of us must carry.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It must be something going on in there.

[war_daddy]

who cares what women feel? just do what you want.

[Anonymous]

Take them all to pound town.