Any way I can stop feeling so hopeless about women in my life?

[Anonymous]

So I just turned 22 and I just feel like there is no hope for me when it comes to women and relationships. I've never had a girlfriend, and only hooked up with a girl once before. I've tried and failed to get with a ton of different girls. Some girls were a perfect match with me on interests, and I think might have been interested. I think it just comes down to the way I talk to them, I don't know I try to just act natural but it always backfires. If anyone has any kind of advice for me, I'd appreciate it

[lightbulb27]

yes, you have to work on your confidence and value, communication skills... end of story. Girls see through your weak facade in 2 seconds. That's how long it takes for them to ditch you and to pick someone else.

That's just nature and reality. There are many ways to work on your self esteem, confidence, self worth, healing internal wounds... meditating, studying people who are successful, practicing being successful, challnging yourself emotionally, learning new skills, etc.. list goes on and on.

[OddBeMe]

You sound like me.

Start talking, befriending women. As many as you can. Put dating on the back burner and just focus on talking to women. Trust me.

[Selene1600000]

At 22, having little relationship experience is much more common than it feels, and it doesn't mean you're doomed to struggle forever. If you consistently connect with women but things don't progress, it may help to focus on communication, confidence, and showing romantic interest clearly rather than trying to be "perfect" or saying exactly the right thing. Keep meeting people, learn from each experience, and remember that one successful relationship only takes one compatible person not approval from everyone you meet.

[Slartybartfast]

Consider yourself better off, modern relationships are one sided and broken beyond redemption.

[Anonymous]

There are most definitely better things in life than relationships with women. Go accomplish great things.

[Anonymous]

Are you good looking because that's all you really need.

[Imsmurter1]

Yeah well I just turned 32 and never had a girlfriend so how do you think I feel you twat?

[Anonymous]

stop caring you value being with a woman more than you value yourself

[Anonymous]

The game is cruel