Me and my girlfriend been together for 6 months, l asked her to be my girlfriend 3 months ago. We make out, we do sexing. But I don't understand what could be the problem, she's not a virgin. She says that I'm "the first good guy" she has. She doesn’t want go out to dinner on Valentine’s Day.
She may just want to take things slow because she has learned from past mistakes. My guess is she wants to be sure you are in it for the long haul and are serious about being with her before putting out. If you really care about her, respect her boundaries and be patient. If not, maybe she is right to wait. It weeds out the players.
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if she is not ready...
then you, as a couple are not ready
she needs to be ready first, not just you wanting it already
Sounds like she is not sure if she wants to commit.
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Only she could possibly know. It doesn't sound like she has communicated why to you.
She's given up the pootie before to Chad, but she is making you wait. Fuck that.
Move on. She’s a time waster
Move on. This is lame
Move on. This isn't going anywhere soon.
She is using you
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