A few months ago, a girl followed me and i foillowed her back. I really liked her profile, how her life was almost the same as mine, probably a more reserved person. I started to talk with her and since then we've ben chatting for like once a week or two (always with me starting the conversation).
She always watched my stories, and lately she was liking a lot of them. Last week we had a very nice conversation about music and life, it was the first time i felt like she was really into me, and for the first time also she made questions about my life and even said how she feels about hers. The conversation ended with me saying that she could send me funny things whenever she wanted, that i would really like to see, because that was the way i started this chat specifically.
What i don't understand is that now, even after this deep and nice chat we had, she just stopped liking my stories (but still watches literally all of them), some of them i was 100% certain she would like, but she didn't. I just want to know what could be the reasons for that, if i'm exaggerating or something, and what should i do to get to her again, because now i'm kinda scared to talk to her.
What Girls Said
Grow up and do something meaningful with your life. This social media nonsense is a dead end.
could be only curiosity
what about she stop liking my stories that she used to like all the time? is that some kind of sign? should i just ignore it and talk to her again? she always showed interest during our conversations. but this "stories" thing is making me crazy.
yes maybe talk to her again
Talk to her.
About what? Keep talking about things we like and not worrying about the likes?
Yes đź’•
Try to remind yourself to stop worrying so much, that she might just be waiting and hoping for more conversations with you. If she’s lost interest, then you’ll meet someone else who probably won’t. Life is a gamble. For all of us. Whatever you do, don’t sell yourself short by marrying from fear of dying alone. You’ll feel more alone in that marriage with the wrong person than if you were not married.
How to know if you really like her? Well, I can tell that you do, so you’re not dating for the wrong reasons. What you need to ask yourself is whether you’d be proud to introduce her as your girlfriend, fiancée or wife to friends and family. What does she have to offer you as a partner? Is she intelligent, kind, responsible, funny, loyal? Does she respect you and other people, including her parents?
She’s not just interviewing YOU as a potential partner. YOU’RE interviewing HER.
yes, i'm pretty sure i would be proud. i also feel like she have some interest with me, but she is too shy to demonstrate. i tried to puy myself on her place many times, if i had no interest with someone, i would never keep making questions to the person during a conversation and i would take a long time to answer for example. But she answers me very fast, watch my stories almost instantly and she likes to ask things about me sometimes.
There’s your answer. Go ahead. It sounds like she likes you and is waiting for you to pursue her. To start talking and making moves.
thank you, i still want to know why she stopped liking my stories though. i know this is not so relevant, but i'm afraid it's a negative sign. you as a girl, why would you stop liking a guy posts that you used to like all the time?
I’d be feeling impatient that we keep socialising online rather than you asking me out; and openly expressing how you feel about me.
i understand, but she is probably very shy like i said, and i feel like we have to talk more about personal things before i ask her out. but now i'm insecure.
Relax. Just keep messaging her and ask her out when you’re ready.
Thank you, that's all for now. Wish me luck :D
Good luck sweetie đź’•