Why is she still checking out my stories?

[Anonymous]

I had a friend whom i fell in love with. I confessed and got rejected in a rude way. She tried to come back to me a few times but now i rejected and ignored her. Whenever we see each other on the street or bus we ignore each other. But she's still checking out my stories every time she could. If she's done with me or hates me why is she still doing that? If she had abit of self-esteem and respect she wouldn't do that i guess?

[SueShe]

The fact that she is still checking your stories leads me to believe that she is still a child at heart. I mean, really? At that age to still check out other people's stories on social media shows that they haven't really grown up at all. This would be something for a teenager at best but not for a person that is well into her thirties.

The fact that you check that she checks you also leads me to believe that you have a hard time putting her behind you. Why do you bother about something as trivial as that? Let the past rest and be mature about it. It is as if both are stalking each other, her by checking your stories and you by making sure that she did check them.

As to the why? She would definitely be the only person that could give you a satisfying answer.

[boggboss]

Because she clearly don't hate you the fact she came back a few times and u rejected her shows she dont hate you she is curious to see how u are and most likely wants the friendship back if that's not what u want then move on

[Asker]

Got it thanks man. I can't see her as a friend anymore so i had to cut the ties off.

[boggboss]

So cut it off and stop worrying about her that she rejected u shows she ain't intrested if she now tried to get back together it wouldn't be because she likes u it would be because she misses the friendship

[Asker]

It''d shatter me into pieces when she mentions the guys she dated. For my own mental health i have to stay away from her.

[Iron_Man]

The best thing to do is talk, talking is key work it out before you drift apart

[Asker]

Gotcha. Thanks for the advice.

[Iron_Man]

you’re very, very welcome

[In_Trance]

What does it matter?