Girls, Should a guy to block a girls number/social media if she did it to him first, does that leave the door closed for any potential reconciliation?

[Anonymous]

[brightpapaya]

Personally I wouldn't chase after a woman who's blocked me if I were you... I would block her back and move on.

[Asker]

well its not about chase i just figured if the other thought they were out of line, harsh and immature on their end would they reach out. I saw this girl's profile and she looks miserable or super upset. I think she pushed me away essentially because maybe part of her thinks she's not good enough for me. Majority of answers on here from girls to guys are usually negative such as, "no man, she's not into you", "leave her alone", "she doesn't have feelings for you", "stop trying she's out of your league". This is why guys on here using GAG or just in general will usually consider themselves as some POS. Before things ended I asked her, was I creepy? Did I do anything to turn her off, she said no I think you're an awesome guy but I don't see a future with you because you couldn't be calm. So the break down of the story. This girl follows me on Instagram last February, didn't know who she was. Few wks go by decided to message her, she responds quickly. Eventually we chat more and more, I ask for her number and she gives it. Then even before meeting up were joking around and talking about a bunch of stuff. She's messaging memes and joking a lot.

[Asker]

Then she says, we should meet and go to a museum or art exhibit, I said sure. But I was in the middle of finishing grad school so I was super busy with essays and exams to study for. Then my dad passed away last April, she goes on vacation for her own purposes, I couldn't do much 30 days after my dad's passing. Then it becomes May, we decide to meet up in June after I graduate, but then something hits her life where that's delayed. I get a new job so im busy with that. We talked in the summer but I could sense something was really bothering her. She goes on another vacation for religious purposes and says, when I get back it will be late September/early October. We finally meet up in October, date goes go by well. I didn't hug her or shake her hand, I wanted to be respectful, paid for dinner, convo flowed well, made her laugh, took the train back home with her so we chatted on the train. Same night she messages me and says I had a great night. Two days later I get the flu. But while I had the flu Im thinking, man I have feelings for her and I want to make a plan to see her again. Few days go by, the following week, I admit my feelings for her, she's like I'm open to meeting again but maybe you should talk to other girls. I said why? Did I do something? She's like no you were such a gentleman on the date, I enjoyed it, you're an awesome guy but I am swamped with work and its the Q4 season. Obviously I'm annoyed and I told her listen I don't want to get played or taken advantage of because I've been through that with other girls when I was younger. She looked at that as me disrespecting her, which wasn't the case. I tried apologizing two days in a row and it just led no where where she said fuck you to me and blocked me. Mind you, I didn't insult her, I didn't swear at her, I didn't insult her family, I was patient with her, I didn't act rude or sexual with her, respectful of her privacy.

[Asker]

Basically I did all the things a girl would expect from a guy. In my heart I truly believe I did all that I could have as a guy, I think she will regret how she acted. It's not like im some ugly, 5ft dude. I'm in shape, I think im a decent looking guy with nice hair and facial features, I work two jobs, have a good education. She even told me she likes my ambition and drive in life, I'm not a lazy guy playing video games and eating sandwiches all day. So that's basically the whole story and fall out.