Is it wrong to block your boyfriend/girlfriend on social media?

[Anonymous]

I feel wrong for muting my boyfriend on snap and muting his messages but when I have his notifications on I'm tempted to respond to everyone of his messages. Tbh I think its unhealthy how much I want to talk to him, especially since he always rushes me off the phone when I call, so I'm trying to take a little detox and not be a clingy girlfriend. But he also calls me when I thought he hated talking on the phone, then I answer, and he acts like he doesn't want to talk and I'm confused! So I just muted his messages so I wouldn't be tempted (as much) to text him about issues I'm having with him. He doesn't know I'm upset and I'm kinda holding it in because he has some important events for this weekend and I don't want him to be sad because we argued or something. Should I just talk to him about the stuff I'm upset about (even though I could be overthinking) or should I let it go?

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+1 y

A lot of people are saying it's passive aggressive but he doesn't know I've muted his messages. It's not like I block him so he can't contact me, I just block his notifications from coming through unless I purposely check them. It's not to hurt his feelings, instead it's so that I won't hurt his feelings by arguing with him before his weekend. Our communication is usually A+ and we work things out great. But I don't want to argue or fight this weekend when I know I'm supposed to be there for him

[SjE78]

it can cause/create issues like distrust.. but if they are being a dick then it's pretty much the social media equivalent of the "silent treatment"

and we all who have experienced in relationships know how badly that can go...
when a woman/girl is being a nag and on a guy's case... that moment of silent treatment can sometimes feel like a reward :)
where as communicating with your partner and letting them know why you are upset and how to work around it...
but if you both are aware of why and it isn't for the reasons which to onlookers may seem iffy then i see nothing wrong but make sure you both are aware of why and work things out...
people argue... couples more so... and providing that those arguments dont result in physical abuse then they can be as healthy as you and him getting along

[Grobmate]

I'd consider it wrong. I don't have insecurities, but crazy motives exist if you need to block your SO.

You should always talk, even if you are upset. Communication makes or breaks relationships.

[Y3llow]

I used to be super clingy like you are describing. What I had to do was stop replying. Even if he replied, no matter how badly I wanted to reply instantly. I'd go make myself do something on my own, go work on a puzzle, watch TV, etc. I'd focus on my own interests until I forgot about him. Then I'd text him when I was done. I have to do this again every so often when I feel myself getting clingy again.

[Y3llow]

But it feels nice to be able to just rely on myself and not be clingy.

[Anonymous]

When you say he calls you then acts like he doesn’t want to talk on the phone could just be him unsure of what to say or nervous (no matter how long you have known him) I wouldn’t mute him though that seems a bit unfair. Also if you feel it is important things then bring it up if it’s not maybe wait until after the weekend

[PinkChampagne]

I would never do it... I want to be constantly with him all the time and hear when he call or message so I would never block him out of me like that

[Logorithim]

Yeah, that is viewed as hostile. Talk to him about changing his messaging habits instead.

[GiveitaShance]

As far as I am concerned confront him about it and try to work something out because you are feeling bad about yourself and his being passive aggressive doesn't help at all. So talk to him and find a solution to the problem.

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah, it is. But you didn’t block your boyfriend, you just muted his notifications. Your reasoning is pretty weird but as long as you check his messages and get back to him when you can, it’s okay.

[hotdog666]

In my opinion, it kinda sounds rude and I also feel blocking someone means that you are a coward. Just give them the cold shoulder and talk em out. Solve together so everything is gonna be alright with no stone unturned

[HitGirl_007]

If your blocking your current SO your clearly hiding shit and your shady!!

[JohnAlaska43]

shouldn't have to argue over notifications.
Why be on snap chat anyway?
Just why?

[Anonymous]

Ya it’s passive aggressive which is the most unhealthy way of dealing with any situation ever, passive aggressive behaviour solves nothing but instigates more problems

[shay12]

It is not healthy for your relationship. It can cause him to mistrust you or feel you are angry or unhappy with him

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes unless you tell him that you're doing so to study or work.

[up_64]

The problem I see here is the use of Snapchat. Use telegram or WhatsApp for your boyfriend

[Thrifty]

I think just throw away ur phone and be next to ur boyfriend irl

[LuWe22]

Replying and answering, texting is not being clingy.

[PrincessGrail]

That’s a good idea

[Secret6620]

Nope I block anyone who threatens my energy 👍👍👍

[owens97]

yea not cool to block ur s. o

[WhoDatGuy]

This already sounds dead in the water 🤷‍♂️

[sidvt]

Nothing wrong if u don't wanna talk to him
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[AmANiceGuy]

Yeah, blocking your SO is wrong

[needhelp777]

HELLYES