Am I just a fantasy?

[PaleRider8]

This might sound arrogant, but very early on in my life I noticed that I was/am very appealing to the opposite sex.

I'm 43 years old now and I'm fed up with this situation. Women who are in a committed relationship flirt with me very openly. They don't leave it at smiles and words only, no, a lot of touching and body checks are involved. I don't reciprocate! They don't seem to care they are actually cheating on their partners. I wouldn't like the idea of my partner doing these things to another man.

Right now I'm single and especially younger women let me know and feel they find me attractive, even though they are in committed relationships. In the past years I have developed feelings for two of those women, but when they figured this out, they quickly made clear they could not reciprocate because of their relationship.

I hope karma will do its work. For this reason I have become very cautious when it comes to women. Sometimes I think women just want to live a fantasy of theirs. Am I overthinking this or is there something I can do to avoid this situation?

[_Maya_]

Well aren't you just all that then? You think mighty highly of yourself. Enough to make an account and brag about it. If you are anything like this in real life it would be a huge turnoff. I'm not sure the point of all this. So you developed feelings for two girls that you knew were in a relationship with someone. You proud of that bro? So you knowingly persued attached women. Good job. Also good on there part for telling you no. Your post is sorta all over the place. Part is bragging how great you are and part is complaining about women. I don't know which to address.

[RoseySarah]

So true there is confident and there is arrogant. One is a huge turn off so reminds me of this question!

Do attractive men get away with behavior that would be deemed creepy if they weren’t good looking? ↗

[_Maya_]

@RoseySarah good call of that!

[_Maya_]

@SoLongPeople who are you?

[Flotri66]

Lol you're so right. I think he made this account so that he can brag about a situation he totally misread or never even happened.

[_Maya_]

@Flotri66 Yep lol. I totally agree.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD XD XD things that never happened for £30000 please, Jim! XD

[RoseySarah]

Wait wait he noticed he was attractive... Which means the women never did! Yup going for fake bragging 2000!

[LiamJHayden]

If I had that problem I sure as heck would not complain. I average about 2 to 3 "Yes" responses for every 20 women I approach.

[laly520]

I like ur imagination

[Anonymous]

Just tell them no.

[In_Trance]

Yea... they're in committed relationships

[californianjoe]

You are such a dreamer