Why can girls not be like anime girls?

[Unit1]

Do girls not realize that many of us are kind of obsessed with anime girls because we love them both so very much? Now to be fair the anime girls tend to be portrayed idealistic and wife material (you can see that by the creation of the "waifu" term). Still we don't want to be telling our fellow brothers "she's not yours. it's just your turn" with good intentions.

[HappyWoman34]

You sound like someone who desires a virgin wife. I’m not going to say you’re wrong, if you yourself are a virgin and/or have religious beliefs. However if so, you should be looking in religious church groups and religious dating sites only. Otherwise, good luck with finding one!

[Unit1]

Wrong question

[aceleon]

and you are losing me here since i am infact not a virgin by any means and can and do want a virgin (maybe not a wife but you get my point) and that didn't stop me or most non virgin guys out there from finding it.

[HappyWoman34]

@aceleon then in my mind, that makes you a hypocrite. My opinion is as valid as yours and nothing you say can convince me to think otherwise. Also, my point being that unless someone’s religious or asexual, it’s very rare for there to be a lot of virgin women your age. I’m not being emotive. I’m stating a fact.

[HappyWoman34]

It wasn’t a wrong answer. You asked. I answered. What these anime women are is weird. They have huge eyes, they’re skinny and virginal and dumb. I know that’s to appeal to children, so they’re non threatening and non sexual and it’s a great idea-for kids to watch. It becomes a sexual sexist fetish for some men though or men that fear women’s sexuality.

[HappyWoman34]

You can’t call me a slut either, trying to justify my lifestyle because I have religious beliefs and I don’t hook up with people myself. Tough bickies lol

[aceleon]

you are too defensive over something you don't even partake in, and of course they are virginal, if not a cuck no one likes a slut.
hypocrite? sure whatever, beats being a cuck who settles for someone elses sloppy seconds anyway, also as long as the girls don't mind me and my past i can't care less about being a hypocrite, also who said i didn't have a religion or seek girls who is not religious?
also calling anime girls flaws? they are skinny? yes not obese like some and doesn't have to live on diets, virgins are good much better than whores, dumb? they are much more brilliant than most real girls, at least they don't talk nonsense.
fearing womans sexuality? more like disgusted since only a cuck would like an whore.

[HappyWoman34]

@aceleon skinny to the point of looking like an underage girl

[HappyWoman34]

I’m not defensive, I just think you’re wrong.

[aceleon]

i don't know what kind of animes did you see but most anime girls are deliciously curvy.

[Cynicaldreamer]

The same reason you guys aren't like anime guys- as much as we wish such guys existed, it's a fantasy that won't come true... for either gender :|

As someone that's a big anime fan and used to have anime crushes; I get it. But I also realize that the reason we idolize and crush on said characters is because they're literally drawn to be perfect. Humans are not.

[Unit1]

I don't think we expect girls to look like near perfect 2D drawings but to be pretty and super sweet like those anime girls.
How do you think boys can be like those cute anime boys that you have crushed on?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Hmm, honestly? It's hard to put into words.
I tend to be drawn to tsundere guys myself- I am sure you know what that term means. Basically he is aloof, keeps to himself and maybe close friends, and really only opens up to people he cares about and likes... though he is not very sappy/emotional about his feelings.

Give me a guy like that : he has his passions and hobbies, works hard, and cares about those close to him, but when he wants something, or someone, he makes it obvious- no games or nonsense.

[Unit1]

Fair enough.

[aceleon]

descripting me aside from works hard, i am naturally talented at most things so i don't really have to put much work, hell i didn't study since middle school but my high school graduation grades were 86 (math knows no natural talent if you don't study)

[madpete1111]

What is the actual question here? Why are real women not cartoons? Odd. Also where do you live? Japanese women are more like anime women than American women because of culture. What an odd question. Be honest. You want to bang a cat girl so find some one into cosplay

[CozyCoffin]

Because, they are idealized versions of people. Unfortunately, even if a woman checks off all or most of your list, they can change in any of those or all. We aren't like fiction. I have characters I like, in various mediums, but I understand that reality.

[PeachyPie93]

So you like annoying, ditzy girls, that are weak and useless? Because that is what most those girls you chose are. Or do you have an Asian girl fetish? Girls are not cute and innocent because we can't be. Especially now that most men don't even want to marry now LOL.

[Unit1]

What makes you think anime girls are like what you have described?

[PeachyPie93]

Because I watch anime and I seen SAO and final fantasy and those two girls are annoying and useless xD

[Unit1]

I don't know what SAO is but Rinoa is a good girl, neither annoying nor useless.

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Girls should be like her

[Unit1]

She did come back to get Squall that one time, where he was stranded and alone. Give me a girl just like that.

[PeachyPie93]

Well you have to think they are just written characters, like guys in shoujo manga. They always are there to save the girl, always say the right thing and always do the right thing but guys in real life don't even compare in being nearly as caring or have the sweetness of anime guys, essentially it is just fantasy lol.

[aceleon]

well the girl's strenght has doing nothing for me so iam pretty okay with a weak girl and most girls are pretty much useless for me either way (useless dictionary meaning: having no use for them) and for the anime guy thing, what can i compare with them? well certainly looks, being an anti-hero, knowing saying the right things (when i want or need to, otherwise i prefer fatal bluntness) also i am very caring (just not for the girls but considering every animal and kid encountered my 21 years on this earth loving me and clinging to me i think i am sweet enough to attract them also most adults seeing me as one of the most charming young lad they met so i think my effects are not just restricted with kids and animals lol)

[Unit1]

That sounds easy enough to me. I can be close enough to an anime guy to a girl, that's close enough to an anime girl.

[alice55]

I guess same reasons that irl men are not like in books movie tv show

it’s not realistic, like I really like Rafe Cameron from the show outer banks and coriolanus snow from the book / movie hunger games ballad of songbirds and snakes but I aren’t gonna be able to find one who are like them in real life.

they’re fictional character you can’t find someone similar in real life

[Unit1]

The thing is that in anime some characters do what's fairly easy to do in the real world too. We're not talking about flying or killing bad humans.

[alice55]

But it’s not realistic
Things is anime girl in anime for men are vastly différent than in shojo anime for women

Men in réal life are nothing a like men in anime read a shojo there they love rich men coming from rich family that are dominant (to the point it would be considered assault if the Guy were ugly)

Women aren’t like in anime cause most men women date as teenager are assholes and it change their personnality

Men want girlfriend who act like wife but refuse to marry and act like husband themselves not to count the 70 percent of men being cheater (in France )
Also the one Lying and faking a relationship to get virgin and women to put out then leaving them

[alice55]

Also it Côme from the différence on how girl are portrayed in girl show and how they re portrayed in Guy shows

Girl in Guy show are Nice supportive etc … pretty annoying to watch as most women prefer to Watch stronger women so in girls show women are portrayed as the hero cool girls stronger etc … maybe not realistic but more interesting to Watch than a basic character that is just Nice those are pretty Boring like character

You want Nice girls but women Watch show were women aren’t Nice but more cool asssertive so it might be why you can't find guy that are Nice

Also sorry for my tipping error I m on my phone and is it horrible to write with it

[Unit1]

Nice and supportive girls are annoying?
Give me annoying girls!

[alice55]

I just mean annoying to watch on tv, not very interesting boring. If you take Katniss from Hunger games she's strong, have a strong temper, hunt, etc... She's interesting, she do things her ways, character like Hinata from Naruto are pretty boring when compared to katniss cause the only things about her is her love for Naruto (that honestly I don't think Kishimoto even ever gave a reasons for her loving him so much), they're very good person but not interesting to watch if she were fat and ugly doubt many people would like her or even talk about her. She doesn't really have a personality other than being kind and shy not interesting enough to be main character.

Girls won't watch a show with boring character like that it can't make an interesting to watch they prefer strong girls like katniss and I think this influence why girl in real life are so different from aime girls cause they look up to different kind of women than just those that nice are supportive.
Katnis is also kind and supportive but she's a skilled hunter, not afraid to kill, ready to die to protect those she love, can fight, is smart, etc... Don't you think this is more interesting than just being kind?

[alice55]

It's like in LOTR Eowyn is far more interesting than Arwen, I love Arwen but we nearly never see her and she just support the hero and sacrifice her elf life to stay with him, not much character development.

[alice55]

Girls in real life look up to interesting character with more depth than just being nice and supportive and I guess they want to be strong, smart and all while maybe forgetting to be supportive.

[Unit1]

The way you mention practicality being on top of being just kind sounds like bonus things. This is not to say it's better to not have practical skills than to have them.
Point being primarily men fall in love with super sweet girls unless these men have some deep issues. How often do you see kickass girls with practical or survival skills being as sweet as in anime?

[alice55]

Things is most men especially younger one like cool girls or hot girls not sweet one, sweet girls aren't popular at all, I mean I know this from a fact everyone described as being pretty and gentle while i was in high school but no guys ever flirted with me or anything they all prefer dating cooler girls.

And it's not really a matter of what guys are attracted to but a matter of what girls value and want to be like nobody is interested in being kind even guys literally nobody only people who value kindness are usually old people. Young people prefer to be with people they find attractive and who haves similar hobbies to them and just a person being kind is not going to do it for them.

Kindness is one of the quality the most overlooked by majority of people especially the teenager and young 20s one. Some like you might like it but is it usually introvert that like it and girls are usually more into extrovert (cause easier to talk to and get to know).

[alice55]

I can't remember a survival girls from anime I just remember Lara Croft from the video games but that' it

[Unit1]

Almost no girl has flirted with me either.
Back in high school where I was stranded at the 16 year old girls were wooed by 25 year old men, who obviously bought them with chocolates, flowers, gifts and wine and putting up a facade of being a big and tough guy. Not all girls but it's hard to overlook it. Those 25+ year old men were easily overshining the broke boys of similar ages. I saw it in the first second they were buying their virgin P.

When I hear girls saying what men want them to be like I am often thinking "WTF, what kind of weird and terrible men were they talking to?"

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Do you look like this?
Because, we also like anime men, but you definitely are not one

[Unit1]

To be fair, no one is an actual anime boy or girl. Do you know anybody, that's close enough like an anime boy to you? 😁

[aceleon]

for a fact, i kinda look like this, maybe not that unnaturelly bulky but the rest comes strangely close.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thanks for sharing. You though, expect a woman to be virgin, while you are allowed to sleep with someone. You could look like an angel and I’d never be interested.

[Unit1]

You're making things up

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No, I came across his comments regarding this topic.

[aceleon]

well i don't remember asking if you were interested? i was just stating facts not trying to pick your or anyone elses interest especially considering you are not what i desire, right?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@aceleon Then praise and advertise yourself on another “market”, please. If I want to sell a product in Thailand, I don’t advertise it in the Russian market.

[aceleon]

funny thing from coming you or anyone like you but sadly i'm not a product and i'm not selling anything, i didn't reduced myself into someones plaything yet.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually women like that do in fact exist.
Type "perfect cosplays" in image search.
Most of the results are people who are a spitting image of the character they are cosplaying as.
If you mean their personalities, that also exists.

[Unit1]

Yay! Time to get those ladies

[TheSpaceGnome]

Settle down unit, you only need one.

[Unit1]

That's what i'm talking about

[laly520]

what about anime boys
would u go save the world n be devoted to only one girl after killing all evil creatures?

[Unit1]

If you mean like killing the one's, that are responsible for our terrible living conditions? What do you expect an average homo sapiens to accomplish?

[aceleon]

well for a fact there is something called harem animes you know? not that it is necessary though since if the girl was like akeno or kuroka i could seriously commit i think (or rias)

[aceleon]

also if i had those super powers i would sure as hell do it and i'd do it for the world not for the girl.

[laly520]

well u r the one who is expecting antoher homo sapiens to be like anime girls

[laly520]

@aceleon never said u will do it for the girl

[Unit1]

Yeah but anime girls aren't expected to assassinate people like Kim Jong Un or Putler in order to save the world.

[laly520]

u r making no sense with wanting fictional characters based on imagintion to be like real humans

[laly520]

or vice versa

[IslaTheWitch]

the answer is quite obvious... because guys are not like men from anime...

[aceleon]

in what way?
looks wise?
or personality?
and with looks and personality, can you give examples?

[tremendousfern]

Don't let your dreams be dreams :)

[Unit1]

YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! TAKE MY HAND!

[Account]

Same reason why men can't be like anime dudes or the way fictional men are written by women 💅

[Unit1]

Describe

[Account]

The qualities?
Altruism, being protective of family and friends, integrity, passionate, high levels of emotional intelligence and empathy, loyal to an extreme degree.

[Unit1]

Sounds easy enough.

[Account]

In theory it is

[TheSpaceGnome]

"Altruism, being protective of family and friends, integrity, passionate, high levels of emotional intelligence and empathy, loyal to an extreme degree."

Can confirm men like this do in fact exist, I'm one of them, as are several guys I know.

[AviatorTom]

Human girls are real flesh and blood. Anime girls are fictitious, created by someone's imagination.

[Nikki1989]

Because we are NOT childish cartoon characters.

[Anonymous]

Because we live in a world where animated girls are more better than actual women. Anime girls have more morals than real girls.

[Anonymous]

we are exactly like anime girls in middle school but boys don't know what to do with us

[slatyb]

Are you like anime boys?

[Unit1]

I don't know. What are anime boys like?

[alice55]

Read a shojo and you ll see for yourself

[Lara_Croft]

Haibo guy, anime girls aren't real

[LiamJHayden]

lol People are real.

[noohair]

Reality vs fiction

[ab2shifty]

I ain’t gone lie, this a stupid question 💀

[MemeSupreme]

what

[MysticDevice]

This is good satire