I'm actually just curious about why guys find them attractive or not. Some think they are more desirable than real women, which to me I am confused by. I myself am not into Anime girls but I am interested in understanding the cause of why this seems to be happening more and more to young men in general. But there are people fantasizing about marrying these characters and defend them online like it's a person and stuff. In Japan they're literally marrying dolls/cut outs of these characters. No I'm not joking you can look that up. I'm trying to wrap my head around it. Human psychology has always fascinated me.
I did, look it up. Did you not see where I mentioned reading an article about guys who “treat female anime characters, as if they were the married to them! There’s no actual woman to dress as the character for him, he just pauses the cartoon and jerks off thinking about fucking… A DRAWING!”There has been a huge social flip, for thousands of years, women were considered property of their husbands, and now apparently, 3rd wave feminist activists believe that the way to solve perceived injustice in the past is to shit on guys in the present! Today men are more likely to commit suicide, less likely to graduate high school, less likely to go to college, even less likely to graduate! Fücking forget getting a good job! We are being encouraged to go it alone, that we don’t need men, not even to have children… one of my professors suggests that we get an anonymous sperm donor, rather than marry and have a two parent family! And people wonder why guys who seriously, have never had sex with a woman, are marrying cartoon characters?
this is so damn sad! Omg! And I can't believe your professor had the nerve to come out and actually say that. They are a wicked, sick person and shouldn't be teaching anyone a damn thing! I've always liked your posts because you've got a leveled head on your shoulders and I respect that a lot. I respect your parents and how they brought you up and I think you'll find a spectacular guy someday who's going to view you like you are, golden when it comes to how you think. It's not an easy world we're living in today and everything is turned upside down. I've given into despair many times in my life because i didn't have a support network, no parents really, and unfaithful partners. But you had the people with discipline and wisdom to raise you right. I know if I am blessed to be a father I will do better for them and teach them to be far better than myself. I think you'll end up where you want to be. Keep doing you for now and keep faith.
2 of 2It is just So wrong! Just because my great grandmother couldn’t work outside of the home, that doesn’t give me the right, privilege to treat men like shit! Look at rape… I am a rape survivor, and even I don’t buy into #believe ALL women! I went through it, and I believe in “# BELIEVE ALL EVIDENCE! If a woman accuses a man of rape, her identity is legally protected, her privacy is written into the law! But the man, who remember is innocent (until proven guilty in a court of law) not the court of public opinion! His name is pubic record, and immediately released to the press.. why? Falsely accusing a man is enough to destroy his life! But even if the woman is prosecuted, it’s a misdemeanor, a small fine, THATS IT! Ant people wonder why some men would rather jerk off to cartoons? Jesus if a man had the power to destroy my life over one regrettable sexual experience, I masturbate to… well maybe not cartoons, but maybe a Chris Pratt movie?
Thanks sweetie, I did write a part 2 to that by the way, so if you have a few minutes, give it a read! 🥰😘
Yes we are both survivors and thats why we connected originally. Been a while but telling me that again I remember more clearly now. And its good to see women understand what is going on, especially young women. You'll have to be the ones to try to change it by being vocal and its an uphill battle. Its bad but many women are going to have to train husbands if they want them i suspect and at no fault to the man she's with either. They brainwash us so young and we already have a lot of broken families that offer little if any support. Boys are floating through limbo with no sense of direction in life.
You are absolutely right! And so many girls I know, just don’t give a damn! They are like “fuck men! They oppressed us for thousands of years… it’s OUR time now! But I’m like what oppression have you faced? Which guy in this school (when I was back in high school) has oppressed you? Thee only thing some of them can say is My Ex cheated on me! I was like, WHAT? Bitch, that’s not oppression, sure it’s very disrespectful, buy it’s a long way from oppression! So would you prevent your ex from getting a college education if you could? And they all say YES! Especially if he wanted to go to the same college as I do! The level of entitlement that some, even many teenage and twenty-something women have over the lives of men and boys is shocking! It’s like a war, and we are expected to want to destroy guys! To me those men and boys are my future husband, and my future sons! I WANT them to do amazingly well. I don’t want to go back to men succeeding at the cost of women’s success! But how is it any different if women succeed at the cost of men’s success? I always hear feminists complain that “only 30% of Fortune 500 board members are women… we need equality, NOW!” You know what I NEVER hear feminists say? “Only 1% of ROOFERS are women, only 9% of construction workers are women, only 8.9% of workplace fatalities were women! We need equality NOW!” No, women don’t want equality when it’s backbreaking labor, and in the heat of the summer, and the cold of the winter, and we DAMN SURE don’t want equality when it comes to workplace deaths… we desperately need equality with cushy, high paying, safe indoor jobs, if we want TRUE equality, then talk to me when we are ready to fight for highly dangerous, low-wage manual labor jobs… THEN we’ll have true “equity”! If you are not actually demanding that… STFU! You don’t want equality OR equity, you want superiority! And that is a very dangerous, and hypocritical thing for society!
You can also remind them that men might have led the households for thousands of years but we also died to protect them. We were the spear and cannon fodder while they were home looking after the children. In many respects I think women did have it better just because they were safe from the battlefields. The white feather campaign is proof that feminism was but about equality of the sexes.
What feminism has truly done for me personally is question if my life had any value whatsoever. Like I feel like I'm worthless because I'm just easily replaced by society by any other guy. If it was for some women out there like yourself who are open enough to share your feelings where would I be? I had this conversation last night with another female gagger. She tells me my life is important and is worthy and I am respectable because I want to be there for my children and my woman and that the ideas of how a man should be and all is toxic to myself and other men
I absolutely agree! Well, MOSTLY agree, I think you may have thrown something in there about you Ex replacing you with another man? That’s nothing to do with Feminists, that’s just your ex being a bitch…OR YOU were an asshole and deserved to be replaced. Either way, it’s a personal issue and not a feminist / anti-feminist struggle! Just sayin’ babe. Either way, still love ya.😘
Yeah you're right although feminism does promote cheatin now. At least the vocal ones. I think they secretly just hate everyone lol
Yeah, I’ve not heard that one yet? I do know that they claim that there is NO physical, mental, or emotional difference between men and women (I mean, THAT’s just insane! If that’s so why are there lower physical standards to get into (and out of) the police academy, the fire fighting academy, and the US military? And why do feminist organizations fight to KEEP those lower standards, if gender is just a social construct? #MyVaginaIsNotASocialConstruct ! They also promote single parents, as being EQUIVALENT to a two parent family! Yet without a mother AND a father in the home, kids are, something like: 12 times more likely to drop out of high school, 8 times more likely to go to prison, and for girls ONLY… four times more likely to get pregnant before the end of school! #FathersMatter !
I dont hate on anyone's sexual preferences brother. That's one thing you need to know about me. Everyone should live their best life and not be pressured by others to live a lie.
That is a great way to think of life bro. If you keep thinking like that you will definitely be making a lot friends and companions. Because no one doesn't like judgmental jerks, I am happy you are a good person.
i was sexually repressed most of my life to appease others. That's not natural and not a way to live. Explore and just be safe while doing it.
So true, and why were you sexually repressed?
My dad was a total prude and I was always trying to make him proud and impress him. I grew up around WWII and boomer era men. The guys that believed they always had to assert themselves over women. If you compromised even a little with a woman you simply weren't a man. But that way of thinking was not making me happy. I am happier in my current relationship than previous ones and I feel like there is more love in this one as a result. Plus I gained the ability to empathize with others. I was whacking off at 7, when I was a teen I had to jerk 8 times a day to keep myself in control of my better judgement. How can I expect a girl to be a chaste angel if I failed so hard at it myself? How is that even fair? No, it's better this way. People can live fulfilled sex lives now and be who they really are. And if someone can't accept those quirks and see them as positives rather than negatives then they aren't right for you. It's that simple.
I can see why you have found a wife because most women would really approve with what you said.
we aren't married yet but I intent to and give her all i am as a man.
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It's weird how much our taste changes over the years
Lol did you go out with a weeb? Also I wouldn't say you shouldn't based on anime genre. Some anime for instance are for comedy. Maybe if they take it too seriously though and let it affect their personal life that'd be different
Yes I've dated a weeb. He was one of the people you described: "Maybe if they take it too seriously though and let it affect their personal life that'd be different."
uuuuuugggh. I watch some animes but actually it's probably been 3 years since I've sat down and watched one. I dont own any anime products except DVDs. This question was basically to get to see how some people's brains tick. No judgement, or hate. Human psychology fascinates me.
look up the term "waifu". You'd be surprised how attached some of them actually get. Like they are really their "wife" or something.
i've heard this a lot so it's not an unpopular belief.