There's a girl at the store I frequent and I really like her is it creepy to add her on facebook even if we have only talked in the store?

[Anonymous]

For context it's a card store I go to and quite frequently, we used to go to college together in a different town but i 100% gurantee that she doesn't remember me from then but she knows my name and details off by heart I don't even need my member card anymore I think she's really pretty and I'd love to talk to her outside of work but I'm super f***ing awkward irl stutter like crazy and turn so red its concerning but I also don't want to add her on Facebook if it's going to be creepy or weird a lot of my friends said I should just add her but I don't want to cross any lines so any advice would be appreciated

[_Maya_]

100% guarantee she doesn’t remember you but she knows your name and details off by heart. Hmm, that seems quite contradictory doesn’t it? Which one? She remembers you or can remember your details? I think you need to get that figured out before you go do anything. As for your insecurities just BE YOU. If she likes you for you then you win. If she doesn’t then you move on and she wasn’t the one. You have to be okay with yourself first and then let her be okay with you. You have nothing to lose by taking a chance despite what you might hear from the bitter blue accounts that will tell you otherwise.

[Asker]

Sorry that part was poorly written she doesn't not remember me from college we were in different groups and basically didn't talk aside from a "hi" as we walked past each other we were in college together over 5 years ago now and since then have not seen each other at all

The part where she knows my details comes from me going in to the store she works at currently so often that she no longer requires me to get out my member card she just pops in my details and brings me up

Hopefully this clarifies what I meant sorry about that 😅

[HappyWoman34]

Just do it. If you disappear by the way after approaching her, she’ll then decide you’re weird. I’ve had several guys afraid to make a move to the point where I never got a date or a kiss; and it’s pathetic by adulthood.

[exitseven]

I do not know much about social media. I know that you will not get anywhere with her unless you talk to her. Why not ask her if that was her that was at school with you? She will maybe remember you. Then just be friendly and ask her if she would like to go for coffee sometime. Wayne Gretsky said that you miss 100% of the shot you do not take.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Summeroflove]

It’s okay. I think it would be best to talk to her in person and see if maybe you can meet for coffee sometime and swap facebooks. But all in all. Just send her the friend request and see if she accepts it. If she doesn’t talk to her when you see her next

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yes. If she doesn't remember you then there's no reason to add her other than to be creepy stalker. Once you two have gone out for coffee or something then you can add her.

[Avicenna]

If you went to college together, I'd say it's OK, but you might want to tell her that before you add her