Why would a married guy try to find ways to fist bump me he does it often with me work related or not he will try fist bumping me?

[Anonymous]

And the other day he said he liked my shoes when he was passing by me and I had them for the past few months yet he just commented I was like my shoes? He was like yes and kept saying good job I’m so proud of you etc while I was working is he being friendly dude

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he is just genuinely being friendly. How is he around others? You could just directly ask him his intentions.

Now, if he has bad intentions. Maybe his marriage sucks, maybe he just has low morals, who really knows. People do things for different reasons.

Just ask him about it. Keep things friendly with him and if he ever does try anything just tell him you aren’t interested in married men.

[Summeroflove]

I think anonymous below has a good point as well.

[Asker]

All I can say is that he over all is very friendly guy but with specific woman he is different towards them like to my friend he doesn’t go any further than work related things with me he will joke and compliment etc with this other girl he might joke too but I feel like he did and still kinda gives me more attention than anyone else

[Asker]

He will even ask me how to say words in my language and than he be trying to say it and one time he called me over it was work related but anyways this Asian lady stoped me later and was like I bet he called you over there just to talk to you and she winked I replied back and said it was work related and he is married

[Summeroflove]

Well. Maybe he has a crush on you or maybe he just likes you as a person. But if he’s legitimately married. Don’t pursue anything further.

Ask him if he’s married before anything happens. And if he’s not shoot your shot

[Asker]

He is married made it even clear I had to stop him
Many times until finally he cooled down a bit

[Asker]

I had to metion his wife he even asked me to rate him the other day

[Summeroflove]

Oh yeah…. Keep things professional and civil. But if he does stuff after you asked him to stop. Maybe take matters to HR

[Asker]

Yea I think he just being friendly so I wi y take it to heart

[Asker]

Won’t

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. It’s probably for the best. Just be friendly. If he does pull anyrhing sexual. That’s one thing. But I would just assume things are friendly since he’s married

[Anonymous]

It's possible that he's just being friendly and trying to establish rapport with you. Fist bumping can be a casual gesture of camaraderie, and complimenting your shoes could be his way of making conversation and showing appreciation for your style. However, without more context, it's hard to say for sure what his intentions are. If you're uncomfortable with his behavior or if it escalates, it may be worth addressing directly or seeking advice from a supervisor or HR department.

[laly520]

lowkey only being friendly

[Asker]

You think so?

[KrakenAttackin]

Don't overthink.