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What does that usually mean? So i have a friend who had recently seemed distant and colder, towards me compared to everyone else in the group. Now I do tend to overthink things and so Im not sure if this was really what was happening or if it was all in my head. Just didn't seem as enthused towards me like she did with everyone else and it wasn't always like that. At one point I messaged her and said " hey there i been wanting to ask you for a bit if i had done or said something that bothered you, just asking because seems like the energy has been a little different than before, but if not then sorry just wanted to check in. " Then came online immediately after that and read my message but replied like 40 minutes later saying " hey Adam no no not at all nothing you said offended me please dont worry!! Then i replied " ok cool " and since then she's been more engaging in conversations and reacting to and asking questions about videos i put in the group snapchat, and overall just more warmer like before. Oh and this is not someone whome im at all attracted to, but i just dont meet people i feel comfortable with and click with often so i cherish the people that i meet that i do click well with.
Since it was such i sudden turn around, should i still be concerned or look out for anything? Thanks
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Maybe because of mood swings? If she is talking to you nice, why the issue? Maybe she had a problem or got depressed or had something to do with full concentration so kept away from social media. It doesn't seem like she has any problem with you. But just dont make the mistake of over texting her after she starts to speak nice. Big mistake. Sometime if you text too much, girls go cold to get some space. (happened to me).
I think she’s choosing indifference, worst form of ignorance
Can you elaborate?
Indifference means treating whatever u do with the same reaction. It means u aren’t worth worrying about. Smile at everything u do and not get pissed because she’s probably done with it.
Opposite of love isn’t hate. It’s indifference or silence
Hmm, i really haven't done anything to warrant that, like i haven't texted her more than usual or anything, in your opinion what do you think could be a reason for that?
Maybe your inconsistency that shows ego or insincerity
That's confusing lol, I haven't texted her more or less than everyone else interacts with her or each other, I'm not the type of person to say or do insincere things, i dont believe I've done anything different than anyone else in our friend group. Unless she misinterpreted something, if so i don't understand why she wouldn't tell me what the issue was.. since she seems to be a straight forward person
Bruhhh u definitely failed somewhere and your immaturity is frustrating
Immature how?
Im really just struggling to understand and trying to see how i can make things right, Im really just out of the loop.
Be a man and ask her what’s wrong and apologise wuss
Thats what the fuck i was trying to do when i msged her asking if i had said or done anything to upset her? Did you read?
She’s tryna ignore u without ignoring. Not taking u seriously
So how can i get to the bottom of this?
And ignoring me how?
Why is she responding to my making comments on my snapchat stories and asking questions about them and talking with me more all of a sudden if she's trying to ignore me? She certainly doesn't have to, i don't post them to her i post it publicly so she could easily just ignore it?