Ladies, In terms of affection and sensitivity how do you like your men?

[Oliverlogan263]

For those who grew up in the days of Girls like Dolls and Boys like Football has lead to those to believe that affection and sensitivity is a feminine trait. So feminine in fact that any Male that displays such things is just a "sissy" (Or "worthless f*ggot") to me ain’t true doesn’t make a guy like myself less of a man or what it is called “Machismo” or to act hard.

Ladies, do you like a guy who is affectionate to give you kisses, hugs, and cuddles and is sensitive toward you and your feelings?

What would you say?

[NathanDavis]

the only guy who called me a "sissy" face to face, definitely waited till the moment in which it was nine of his classmates with him, and when it was just me... by their classroom

half of the guys did laugh, the other were expecting what was going to happen... he was also on my way so I just looked at him and waited, so he said it again to my face like "what are you going to do about it... " and chuckled, to himself this time, because nobody else laughed... and I was still waiting for it, and looking at him, straight to his eyes... if he was actually going to do something about it or just run his mouth while all his dudes are there...

guess all his macho attitude went down the drain, because he just said "meh, you're no fun and got out of my way" and I sure went on my way

lol, my point is... either you are, or you pretend and act... and I've never cared what people have to say about what a man is, or isn't... I just am

[Joshydavid25]

Well, from what I've seen they definitely do, as long as you don't go overboard with it.. Of course different ladies like different things.. As long as you aren't hanging over them like a little pooch they should love it..

[Laciejordan]

At times, yes, it’s nice for him to give me hugs and kisses. Like when he’s just getting home or I’m just getting home or if I’m upset or I just had a long day. I also like it when he’ll just be sitting on the couch and I’ll basically crawl on top of him to force him to be affectionate and he will. As far as sensitivity, I don’t mind it if it’s towards my feelings but I don’t want him to be overly sensitive. Someone needs to think clearly during a stressful time and tbh, I rather it be him.

[Crimsyjo]

Omg I love a manly man in terms of being protective, possessive, strong and dominant. But he's gotta give me lots of love, affection, kisses, cuddles and show he cares about me and my feelings. I don't think that's feminine or sissy behaviour at all.

[Oliverlogan263]

I love you desire for a man that way because I’m definitely that kind of person myself

[Crimsyjo]

Oh wow! Then that's amazing and you will - if not already - be the perfect partner to someone!
Men with the "stronger" attributes without the more compassionate side are the ones that are arrogant and usually selfish. Not good men at all. No. Just like a woman should be "feminine" to her guy but also strong in her independence, courage and strength of mind.

[menina]

Being affectionate or sensitive doesn't make him "less of a man". That mentality is pretty toxic in my opinion.
So yes, I like men who are not afraid of showing affection or sensitiveness. I would love to date or even marry a man like that.

[FlutteringFeelings]

I’m not a physically touch woman so I can do without the touch. The way I express my affection I may left and grab that persons arm or push them (softly), jump on them etc. I show my ways of love and affection differently and I would have to learn a new way of showing affection especially since most men not all but most like the affection

[Beckybooboo]

I can’t live without affection. I don’t mind if he isn’t always the one that initiates it (which he usually isn’t) but I want him to reciprocate when I show affection (which he always does). I don’t want an overly sensitive guy, unless it comes to my feelings lol…

[sheikalana]

My husband is the most masculine and tough men I've ever met. He's very affectionate towards me and I love it I don't see him as less of a men because of that.

[Nikki1989]

Ideally, a man should be well-balanced.