Why did I feel some attraction to a girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 28 year old female, I've been straight my whole life. I've had boyfriend's and I've only ever been attracted to men. I still am. But there is this one girl, I literally met her once and she was working at a sketchers shop. We had a brief small conversation. But the way she looked and carried herself was just so beautiful I can't explain this feeling. I've never felt that way towards another female. Ever! She's been the only one and I think about that every once in a while.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, don't stress too much about it. Attraction and feelings can surprise us sometimes, you know?

It's totally normal and common for even straight-identified people to occasionally feel drawn to someone of the same gender. Our sexuality exists on a spectrum - we're all complex humans with varied experiences.

Maybe something about her energy or vibe just struck a chord with you in that moment. Or could be simple aesthetic appreciation too. Doesn't have to define your whole identity.

I wouldn't overthink the "why" of it. More important is how you feel overall. Mostly into guys still? Cool, then you're still you. No big changes needed.

One person doesn't change what you've known about yourself all these years. And it's okay to find beauty in all people. Try not to worry so much. You're still learning about yourself - we all are. Some surprises along the way are totally normal.

As long as you stay true to your heart, that's all that matters. Do what feels right for you without stressing the labels. You got this, girl!

[NamerOfStars]

Because you were attracted to her. It's okay- really! The experts say that absolute heterosexuality is rare; I'm dubious, but then, maybe I'm an exception. Or maybe I just haven't met a sufficiently beautiful man. Feelings are just feelings; you're under no obligation to act on them.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s out of the ordinary to have girl crushes. I have a lot of them. Were you thinking of her in a sexual nature? Then you might be attracted to women, too on a small scale. Like myself, I am generally not attracted to women, but I am sexually attracted to masculine lesbian women. I’m also attracted to a couple of women I wouldn’t mind making out with and seeing naked, but that’s about it. Some women exude high levels of feminine energy and sexuality that would definitely make a woman question herself, but it’s extremely rare to meet those women.

[Triarii]

Dont know what to Tello you but happened to me as well with a dude best i can say Is explore a bit

[Anonymous]

This is common in those who watch porn.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re bi or lesbian