I have a married female co worker who might like me , what do u think?

[magicturtle]

Hello everybody, please help me figure out this situation. I've been working for this company for about 15 months. Lately, one of my female co workers started giving me some attraction signs, and it is important to say she is MARRIED. She complimented me about my shirts and my hairstyles, but most importantly she started touching me when she laughed at something , and when she said goodbye to me. she doesn't have many friends at work, so that's what made me think about it as an attraction sign. Bottomline is : am i just imagining stuff? is she trying to hit on me? does she like even though she is married?

I hope you will be able to answer this.

Thank y'all

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, this is a tricky situation for sure. Some thoughts:

- Married chick flirting at work is definitely playing with fire. Even if it's just emotionally cheating now, that could escalate fast.

- At the same time, extra attention from a girl is always nice for the ego. Hard not to enjoy it sometimes.

- Best not to assume too much yet - she may just be friendly without meaning anything by it. But those touching and compliments seem a bit much.

- I'd keep an eye on her signals and see if they get more obvious over time. But under no circumstances would I actually hit on her or do anything back. Big can of worms there dude!

- If she keeps pushing boundaries, might have to set some clear boundaries yourself. Just be polite but firm that while you're flattered, nothing can happen 'cause she's married.

Tough spot man. I'd play it cool for now but be careful. Don't wanna mess up her marriage OR your work colleagues trusting you. Keep it professional is the safest move I'd say bro!

[Keith469]

I would confrort this head on, but carefully so it doves t turn into an HR nightmare.

I would say something like you notice she touches you a lot, that touch can be one of many ways in which people communicate, and were wondeing if there were something she were trying to communicate to you.

If she is interested in you, and you her, I think it would be a bad idea to proceed further unless she were in an open marriage or hotwife situation.

[HollyK21]

I think she’s just being polite and friendly. She’s opening up as you get to know her, but respecting her husband. You should do the same, and I’m sure you’d want another man to respect your relationship.

[Anonymous]

You know the saying, don't poop where you eat?