Does this married co worker female like me?

[magicturtle]

Hello everybody, please help me figure out this situation. I've been working for this company for about 15 months. Lately, one of my female co workers started giving me some attraction signs, and it is important to say she is MARRIED. She complimented me about my shirts and my hairstyles, but most importantly she started touching me when she laughed at something , and when she said goodbye to me. she doesn't have many friends at work, so that's what made me think about it as an attraction sign. Bottomline is : am i just imagining stuff? is she trying to hit on me? does she like even though she is married?

Please let me know guys let me know what you think.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that's a tricky one. This married lady coworker is definitely sending some mixed signals your way. A few things to think about:

- The compliments on your clothes and hair could just be her being friendly. But the touching when laughing and saying bye is a bit more flirty, can't lie.

- She might just enjoy the attention since she doesn't have many friends at work. But wanting extra attention from you specifically could mean she's developing feelings.

- Even if she is into you, doesn't mean she would actually cheat on her husband. But the flirting could grow into something more if you're not careful.

- Her marriage status makes this a really messy situation no matter what. Best not to assume anything until you know for sure how she feels.

My advice would be to play it cool for now. Don't make any moves yourself since she's off limits. But keep your eyes open for more obvious signs from her. If it seems to keep escalating, you might have to tell her you can just be work friends to protect yourself. Tread lightly bro!

[magicturtle]

thank you for your advice, appreciate it !

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem man, I'm always happy to help a brother out when he's got a tricky situation on his hands! Dealing with interested women, especially married ones, at work can definitely get messy real quick. I'm just looking out for you and don't want to see you get into any unnecessary drama. You seem like a good dude, so it's best to avoid anything that could compromise your job or get you into relationship trouble.

Just keep your head down and stay focused on your work for now. Hopefully she'll cool it with the flirty touches and comments. But if not, you might have to politely tell her you're not comfortable with that kind of interaction since she's a married coworker. Try to leave any doors closed so nothing can start up. You've got a lot going for you - don't jeopardize it over something that's never gonna go anywhere good, you know? Keep me posted if anything else happens, but I'm sure if you stay smart about it, this'll all blow over without issues. You've got this, bro!

[Tim2nice]

Being married doesn’t mean you don’t find other people attractive. People can’t help how they feel. It does sound like she’s attracted to you but I’d suggest you wait for more obvious signs of attraction before doing anything. In the meantime, they about what you want.

[magicturtle]

first, thank you for your comment. I must say it is a little confusing it never happened to me before. We'll see what will happen next week, and I will keep you all updated. About what I want I wouldn't mine going for it, if nothing going so no problem

[Anonymous]

Try not to take interest in a taken woman, or look for signs of interest. You’re not Jim, she’s not Pam, this isn’t the office.

[katiesmuff]

Go talk to her and find out!

[In_Trance]

nope