Another girl takes girl I was dancing with in club?

[Anonymous]

So, I was at a club with some friends, and while out my friend introduced me to 2 friends of his that were girls. I started dancing with one girl but then halfway through the night another girl came and basically took her from me. I know I just met the girl, but I feel a way about it. Me and the girl was vibing and the another girl took her start dancing and making out

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl, that's such a wack situation! I'd be so mad too if some random took a girl I was vibing with like that.

From your girl's POV tho, she might not have fully been feelin you either if she bounced so quick. Either way it ain't cool!

Next time, don't be afraid to let the interrupting chick know your girl was taken. A friendly "excuse me we're dancing" goes a long way.

And if she ain't respecting your space, just move on with your head high. No need to cause a scene - let the girl see you not bothered.

She'll probably regret ditching for the tryhard later anyway haha. You seem chill, I'm sure you'll find an even better dance partner in no time.

Just keep doin you boo, show the girls a good time. This too shall pass - don't let it ruin your vibe! You got this sis.

[Asker]

Thank you, appreciate the advice

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem man, just trying to help how I can. Dancing with a cute girl only to have it snatched away sucks big time. We've all been there before though, so at least know you're not alone. Try not to dwell on it and stay positive - there will be other opportunities to meet someone even cooler. And hey, maybe give that first girl a shout on Instagram like I said - you never know, she could be open to hanging out again one-on-one without interference. Keep your head up homie!

[Finchie40]

Because she is either gay or bi sexual , since she started making out with her girlfriend , The girlfriend pretty much cock blocked you. It’s something girls’ do for each other especially if she has been drinking and getting out of control , it’s Girl code to have each others’ backs when they are confronted by men

[bobalife]

Unfortunately I think she vibe more with the other girl… this happened to me last night clubbin with one guy tryna talk to me and then another pulled me away who I ended up vibing more with… I felt bad since it was fast and infront of him, but the other grabbed more of my attention.

[Account]

They have a code in between them. She no longer wanted to dance and the other girl helped her out.

[OlderAndWiser]

If the chick you were dancing with was more into girls than dudes. . . and she preferred a girl more than you, would you want to spend more time with the chick? Not much future there!

[slatyb]

She wasn't that into you. No one can take someone away from you. Someone can leave you for another.

[KrakenAttackin]

Her friend decided you weren't good enough for her friend.

[RebelinSteel]

What is the question?

[serious_miss419]

It’s chick code. The girl saved her and u failed.

[Dongie]

Treat her like a man.

[laly520]

then what?

[Keith469]

And?