What are some examples of girl code to you?

Question

Here's a couple I'll share:

1. If a woman asks for a tampon/pad and you have one spare you give it to her.

2. If a woman comes up to you acting like they know you, you pretend you're long lost best friends and get her out of whatever situation she's in safely.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I remember having #2 happen before and at odd times. Several years ago I remember walking into a the lobby of a apartment complex I was staying at. An attractive young lady was sitting on the commons sofa watching the big screen TV. She gave me this look and we made eye contact for a moment. She then said “I’ve having major problems with my boyfriend. I don’t know why I’m telling you this.” I didn’t know what to say given she was a complete stranger. She looked somewhat embarrassed and left.

I didn’t know why either. I have a friendly innocent looking face. I was also younger back then. I was tempted to engage her in the conversation but lots of negative outcomes ran through my head. Including:

1) she wanted to bang me for affirmation and/or revenge sex to spite her boyfriend.

This was a very bad idea since we all lived (and she inferred her boyfriend lived with her) in the same building. But I admit I felt tempted for a moment (she was cute) but glad I didn’t pursue. Nothing good would of came out of that idea given we shared the same building. But I confess that possibility boosted my ego a bit. She saw me as f*ckable at first sight.

2) she just got a vibe that I was a sympathetic “nice guy” who she could be a confidante/friends with at time.

This would be horrible outcome because I HATE the friendzone especially when women want to complain to me about other guys. However this could be (her idea) as more genuine friendship because I didn’t hit on her. Still when attractive women complain to me about other men they are dating it hits a very deep nerve with me.

3.) she was upset with her boyfriend and it was a just in bizarre angry state of mind. She would of have said that to any guy she saw in that moment. That I don’t mind because it was interesting.

Friendlybro79 · Accepted Answer

Your second example has happened to me twice. I think i have a friendly face or something but two times I've had random women stop me for help that way. It was terrifying to be honest. I'm glad I was able to help. Both situations they came up to me and made a face like please help me and just by playing along I was able to help.

First time at a bar a guy was getting really handsy (she told me afterwards) and said HEY MIKE...(not my name) and I looked over and she came up to my side and locked her arm in my arm. The guy behind her looks up at me and I say to him. Are you giving my cousin a tough time? He just walked away lol. He looked warped and she said she was scared and didn't know him. I told her to stay with me for a bit at the bar and just act normal. I said can you call a friend or parent to meet you here and she said yes.

She told her dad someone was staying with her in the meantime. Her Dad was outside the front door in his car in 15 min. I told her text your dad to stay outside so he doesn't kill the guy. The crazy guy was waiting near the door. I looked at him and said stay inside. I walked her outside and met the Dad. She cried once she saw him. I told the Dad I'd make sure he didn't leave to try to follow them. The Dad actually hugged me and in that moment I realized how nice it feels to do a good deed. I'm so glad she came up to me and that I was able to figure out quickly how to get her out of there without causing a scene.

It truly felt nice to be able to help her because all I could think about was if someone would do this for my sister. I am still shaken by that memory. Who knows what that guy would have done. The rest of the night I kept my eyes on that guy and he didn't like being seen so about a half hour later he left.

Minahh · Accepted Answer

1. If she asks me for an opinion on her outfit/makeup I always tell the truth but in a kind way.

2. To never flirt with her boyfriend. This is obvious one, however a lot of girls still seem to not understand.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

I hung out with the boys.  But I'd naturally know your two.

ohsheeT · Answer

This is a very good question because I cannot believe how many times this has happened to me. And within 3 seconds you can see the terror in the girl's eyes and she's talking fast and of course you say hello baby whatever it takes to let it be known that you are best friends from a long time ago or whenever..
But I have had guy friends that a girl has walked up to them and started hello buddy and they start acting stupid but I don't know you get away from me because they didn't know what was going on. And that's when you have to be thinking fast and walk up and say hey where have you been put your arm around her do whatever grab her hands come on let's go dance to get her out of whatever situation she's in but I love this question because it seems like it's happening more and more nowadays

RebelinSteel · Answer

I’ve done the 2nd, mainly as the barmaid sort of signaled she needed a hand which tbh is rare, we had to get a couple of girls out of the pub quietly.

the other is spotting if a girl is overly drunk or rather looks like she’s been spiked or similar, see if she has friends close by, have someone look after her and get some assistance, don’t let her leave alone.

listen to her if she’s depressed or very down, be with her get someone from your group who is good at the listening n talking bit with her. You can get girls wander off from their friends due to being upset, depressed etc. being their to look after someone like that is as important as your 2nd example, as they are at risk.

ReginaGeorgina · Answer

3. Don't be reallly close friends with your best friends boyfriend  4. Never sleep with /kiss a taken man 5. Don't ever put down your friend in front of her crush.

Siri137 · Answer

Yes, number two is very important. Play along, because you might be her only hope. I can't think of any other examples, my mind has gone blank for some reason :(

laly520 · Answer

not letting any player get between me n my friends no sharing to secrets standing up for other girls if they r in trouble not going after her crush or boyfriend etc

Asb_Samson · Answer

Most probably girls will never ask from Men at least as it's not the item they keep with them. Also not easy for them to carry even as they don't keep bag's or 👜👛 like girls...

NathanDavis · Answer

it's just sad... how many girls did pretend to be with me or know me, just so some idiot stopped bothering them... and also because they were truly in danger...

petitedollbabee · Answer

Don’t date your friends ex! I had a friend in highschool who always went for my sloppy seconds 🤢 she’s dated 3 of my ex’s.

Kaneki05 · Answer

That's not a thing that exists so I have no idea. Like pretending barneys bro code exists but tbf at least that one is written in detail.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I did not know the tampon detail. I guess, I'll keep one with me onwards. Just in case that a girl asks me for it :)

elizamichale1 · Answer

Oh i always do tht n i hav helped sum girls in both cases u mentioned above

Wiredone · Answer

I just know when a woman asks for an angel shot that she's in trouble and needs assistance

JayBones2469 · Answer

Girl code:"yas slay queen" until the slightest hint of opposition then it's every bitch for herself and they would even stab themselves in the back cuz they dumb

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I'm just here to take advantage of the ones leaking girl code language 🌚

Still-alive · Answer

When you're talking to a girl and then realize that you're talking to the matrix in actuality. 'girl code' :P

Rangers · Answer

Having any kind of "code" sounds really stupid and immature

peedy · Answer

The double standard rule its ok for me but not for him

Anonymous · Answer

If she asks you to cover for her when she is cheating, you absolutely do it.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

When shw doesn't flirt with your man.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't know you tell me

FenixG45 · Answer

*WOW* COOL! I NEVER knew that!

whistlingwh0res · Answer

watch out for dogs

eagle1951 · Answer

hmmm

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