Why would a married guy tell me that this one guy was checking me out at work?

[Anonymous]

Like everyone was minding their business working yet he noticed it why care to tell lol

[Anonymous]

Bro have you never witnessed a funny or interesting thing and tell the friend or person next to you? He saw someone blatantly checking you out and let you know, why do you think that take some considerable amount of care or that his marriage matters? That’s just so extra.

[Asker]

So what you trying to exactly say here I’m confused

[Opinion Owner]

Simply put, you’re being messy. This man saw someone checking you out, thought it was funny and let you know, what is wrong with that? You’re talking about “why does he care”, as if it takes some big amount of care just to give you a heads up about something. Then you mention him being married like whyyy does his marriage matter? There’s no good reason to bring that up, you can’t even find one that’s why you’re here. It’s messy.

[laly520]

he is nosey or just wanted to make u aware, could be a nice helpful gesture

[Asker]

Maybe

[Asker]

But he said it with a grin on his face

[laly520]

hmm kinda sus to me

[Asker]

Yeaaa, like it was at work and basically there was two guys trying to fix broken door and they was on this high teach thing and I happened to work in front of them not to far but there was other people too yet I don't know how he got that door done bc literally the whole time he was staring at me like even that dude noticed beside him bc he start looking at him and me which I’m telling ya it was weird, like the whole day he was there he was checking me out or staring so this guy coworker not sure how he noticed bc he was pretty busy to notice comes up to me towards the end of work and asks me if the door is fixed I said I think so and than he said it with a grin that younger guy was checking you out I replied back and said I don’t care and why would you even pay attention to that that’s why I’m asking

[Anonymous]

HE was checking you out but wanted to say it without saying it