I’m lost and confused not sure if this married guy at work is just a friendly guy who might come off as a flirt not intentionally but I may be wrong?

[Anonymous]

Either way he is 29 and I am 25, he has been married for about 6-7 years and has two twin girls and I’ve seen his wife on Facebook she’s beautiful with a nice body, so why I’m asking is bc the first day he started working i remember he came up to me randomly and introduced himself and was like ohh you’re pretty good at what you doing huh, then that’s how it started off, than the next day during break he comes up again starts talking again and that’s when i noticed he had a ring and I asked if his married he didn’t hide it and said yes and said he has two kids and that he goes to church bc I mentioned I go to a church as well so than I start thinking okay his “Christian” maybe he just a friendly guy who seems like his flirting, but then he stops me again when I was walking and starts asking me about my relationship and if I’m single or not and I said no I’m praying for the right man and he was like you will get an answer. Then he wanted to ask me if I thought he looks good I was like umm I can’t answer that bc you are married, and just I can go on and on he would come up to me and say oh you doing a good job I would just thank him, then I was walking to clock out and I guess he was behind me and his like ohh you walk so fast. Than later on it was my bday and I was working that day he hasn’t spoke to me yet but my friend mentioned that he told her that he still had to wish me a happy birthday, so on break I was sitting and I see him come he randomly starts singing happy birthday, and when I was walking out with my friend after break he was already at his place he started singing again , so I don't know y’all 🤷‍♀️ but few days later when it was my friends bday we was walking and I was like are you going I sing for her bc he knows we always together he turns around and looks and kinda starts singing and then stops I wanted to see his reaction. But yea kinda weird huh

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you may be feeling confused and unsure about this situation. From what you've described, it does seem like this married coworker has been showing interest in you, which could be seen as inappropriate given that he is married.

It's important to remember that it's not your responsibility to manage his behavior or interpret his intentions. However, it's important to consider the potential consequences and impact on yourself and others if you were to engage in any kind of relationship with a married person.

It may be helpful to set clear boundaries with this coworker and communicate your discomfort with any behavior that makes you feel uneasy. This could involve politely declining his advances, avoiding one-on-one interactions with him, or reporting the behavior to a supervisor if it continues or escalates.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for your well-being and whether you feel comfortable and safe in this work environment. It may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or family members, or to consult a therapist or counselor to help you navigate this situation.

[Mrtcn01]

explanation is too looonngg. if he is married you should far away from him. He is married 5-6 years. he love his wife but he probably is missing flirting. thats it. he is looking for some fun not a relationship.. soo far away from him..

[Asker]

He keeps approaching me himself

[Mrtcn01]

ok so you should warn him.. because men are stupit.

[Asker]

You think he is just playing and nothing serious

[Mrtcn01]

look my friend if i had children and married 5-6 years ı was looking for some advanture not real realtionship. who except me with two children. my children are important not my temprory feelings. ıf you like him flirt him but do not think it is serious. his mind may be confused he is not happy nowadays but it does not mean he wants another relation.

[Mrtcn01]

****accept no exceptt

[Asker]

You saying he may be going through something currently or in a relationship which causes a person to lust or or go through some kinda emotional confusion but he will prob get over it no bc I’ve been reminding him that he is married and I am not going to screw it up and he ignored

[Mrtcn01]

I just hope like that. at least you won't be participant of his fault. you are good and respectful woman.

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@Mrtcn01 Thiissssss

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He's married. Who cares if you are right or wrong. If you are feeling ambiguous about him, he's up to no good. Maybe you are too. Go for it if that's your thing.

*didn't read that big block of text.

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@anna112233 you clearly are already I to him. Don't be that bitch. Please find a different seat in the office. Ignore him give him dirty looks. Respect yourself. 99% of men will cheat under the right circumstances or come as close to it without the full deed. You WILL feel broken and shameful and he will stay with his wife.

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[midnightmoon05]

He is a nice/friendly married Christian guy. Keep a distance.
go find yourself a nice man.

[Anonymous]

He'sarried. Back tf off!!

[Asker]

What does it sound like I’m literally lost and full of weird emotions can someone help not sure if he just being friendly and you saying back it off as if it’s mine fault like I’m the one hitting on him smh

[Opinion Owner]

Yes back tf off
He's married
Regardless if he likes you or not smut