So I am friends with this married guy and I know his married but I kinda noticed his been a little friendly with this one girl at work?

[Emily12344]

it was just two of us and I was like oh is that for (her name) I was just assuming which turns out it was, he lied and said no it’s for his guy friend a little favor he was doing, I said ohhh looks like you have a little crush on her huh ( how cute) he goes negative, which of course his not gonna say he does like someone while being married but how would y’all react if you where in his spot? Did I come off a little to mean

[Anonymous]

Honestly it’s none of your business. You have no idea what’s going on w his marriage or if it’s an open marriage or what. Who knows maybe she cheated on him. Maybe they’re getting a divorce. There’s a lot of maybes. You upset it’s not you he’s getting something for?

[Emily12344]

No lol well he asked me days ago I said no so why ask me that’s one thing and second I know for a fact his not in a open marriage bc he pretty good friends, and he seems happy, and secondly if he was in open marriage why he got scared and said it’s negative as in having a crush on her

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t know I’m not him. Bottom line stay in your lane. Not your business unless he brings you into it.

[Emily12344]

I understand but as a friend it looked wrong from the side and it hurts if his going behind his wife’s back bc he has a beautiful wife and kids, I know it’s nothing he done as cheating but he always talks about his family so

[Emily12344]

I know I probably went to far but

[Opinion Owner]

As a friend you can only just be there. Now like I said if h starts feeling guilty or tells you somethings going on in his relationship then you can get involved more.

[Emily12344]

I know but it bothered me so I kinda joked with him liking that girl I wanted to see his reaction, I mean let’s say you being a happily married man would you go out of you’re way more than once to do a favor for the same chick?

[Opinion Owner]

I get what you’re saying. Doesn’t mean he’s going to act on it. A lot of men like that interaction but would never act on it. Women tend to do the same. It’s been said that a majority of women have a backup that they could go to if things went wrong for them. Maybe some simple something but they know of a man who would willingly support them.

[TonyMetal___86]

He's a bastard, any man who wants a relationship outside his marriage is an INCEL!

[TonyMetal___86]

@Lizagirl123 yes he does

[TonyMetal___86]

@Lizagirl123 ask him, i don't know 🤷🏻‍♂️

[jazzy34]

You need to mind your own business.

[Emily12344]

Umm okay yea

[Emily12344]

We where just near each other and he start talking

[jazzy34]

What does that have to do anything?