He always usually says good morning and goodbye to me, he often times sits with me and my friend on breaks he likes to chat with me a good bit almost every day, whenever I got a problem I have to call him so he came up to me the other day and said you can call me anytime.. I laughed it off! He likes to comment about me like I was kinda just talking to this coworker and myself I guess and he was passing by and goes you training him anna? I wasn’t training tho and than yesterday he stopped by and I happened to mention my friend who works with us and said I think she likes you, he said no we just friends and I said she always talks about you, and he was like she don’t want me.. and than later on that day I was like look that guy is flirting with that girl you missed you’re chance he got upset and was like Anna I’m just a too friendly guy and you make it sound like I’m trying to get every girl here , his like if that’s the case than I’m not talking to no females at all, and left I didn’t say anything but than he apologized for no reason so yeaa I don't know
Your only option here is to distance yourself from him and give him a clear sign that you are not interested in flirting with a married person. He may try to pick you up and you should not allow that kind of thing happening.
If he is married, then he is off limits and you better tell him that you are not a homewrecker and that he should realize that you are not interested in flirting with him.
Try to be less friendly with him so that he gets the message and that he does not have any hopes to get "closer" with you. Best would be to tell him directly that you are not interested and that he should not even attempt to flirt with you.
There is a very fine line between being friendly and flirting and somehow, he has passed this line.
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Well, I certainly hope that you don’t wanna flirt with a married man or date him. Also, you should back him down he’s married don’t encourage him.
Take a break from your thoughts. Not one thing in that question sounds like he's interested.
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Sounds like he's trying to get along at work, and drawing a line to cover his ass between friendly and flirting. Probably if you initiate the flirting, you know, about yourself, and meeting outside of work you'll get your answer. Personally I will smoke and joke with co-workers, but keep that and my personal life strictly separated.
DO NOT DATE COWORKERS. DONT DO IT
yes why not you are a girl
He is that way to everyone
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