Is this married coworker just being friendly or is his behavior flirty?

[Anonymous]

He tried to have small talk with me I wasn’t really feeling it that day in general, (I was on my period cramping) he goes well okay I will start all over next week I’ll leave you alone, he being friendly?

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3 mo

He started lately having small talks with me

[Sunshinelips]

He might be testing the waters, looking for an affair and see if you’ll be up for it. It always starts innocent with a little chat, then the flirting starts, then touching then he’ll get you into bed. Shut it down at the start. It’s not worth the drama

[Asker]

Nahhhh he always mentions his kids and that he did this or that or he went to his mothers in law house so it’s not like his hiding the marriage bc he be telling everyone he got kids and family

[Asker]

And secondly if a guy would really be interested in you he would ask out for dinner long time ago I’ve known him for a year

[Sunshinelips]

I knew someone who had an affair with a married man and he used to tell her stuff like that too in the beginning, talking about his kids. Even though he won’t hide his marriage (if he did he would hide his ring) doesn’t mean he isn’t looking for an affair. Most married men are especially when the sex with his wife stops or reduces to once a month

[Asker]

I think his sex kids and everything is fine, plus he always calls his wife on break time always see him on the phone

[Bricealan]

Depends on you, and on how you want to read it, or not?

For me, I have FAILED miserably on how I missed on wonderful opportunities, with probably wonderful girls, simply because I did not 'read' or sense their interest in going out with them. Usually, men are just too anxious with women and over react to what they 'imagine' is a woman being interested in them, but women... not so much.

He probably likes you!

[Asker]

His happily married man..

[Asker]

Probably likes me as a friend

[Bricealan]

certainly, but you never know. I would just return his friendship. Never hurts to have a good friend at work.

[Asker]

True to that

[slatyb]

He's definitely flirting. I think you should shut this down, tell him that you don't want to discuss your personal life.

[Asker]

Well I ended up telling him Im on my period bc I really wasn’t feeling it, yea he goes I’ll see you next week after he said I’ll leave you alone prob just trying to be a friend

[slatyb]

If he's not interacting with male colleagues in the same way...

[OneViewpoint]

He's hunting you.