He has been at my job for a year now, when he first came the first day he came up to me asking me if I was ( European) I said yes abd he introduced me to himself and that’s how at least I would say it started… he would always greet me in my language he would try getting my attention by calling out my name etc my first assumption was he just probably being friendly as to the fact that he is married he even confirmed he was so I didn’t think Much. Than one day I came earlier to work than usual he was all clapping I turn to look it surely was him, than later on his close friend was walking and he was there he calls my name and says hey is he bothering you? ( so I guess I wasn’t seeing things) I nodded yes he just laughed off and left, than okay one time I was having a hard time at work he asked my friend what’s wrong she told Him so he calls me over and says I will see you tomorrow okay? I can continue soo I started mentioning his wife to him bc he even asked me if i thought he was “hot” and if I found him attractive I was like helllooo what about you’re wife, he paused and said she thinks I’m uglyy im like I doubt that… soo after going through this situation he cooled down stopped bothering me as much and now we have less interactions depending how close we work together, but lately it’s been a year now he recently started mentioning his wife kids but that’s when you ask him, than my friend got engaged he asked how they met she said she prayed etc so i was standing there he tells me yea Anna you need to pray about it.. (bc I am single) I was like okay? Than the next day if he passed by me he told me he liked my shoes which was random and than kept saying how he is proud of me and that I am doing a good job! The next day he was more quiet but still approached me once asking me how to say a phrase in my language and didn’t approach me much that day… so I’m trying to understand does he come off just as a friendly guy
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Is this “married” guy really interested or just over all friendly guy and just messing around in general and don’t mean anything?
