I don't understand why she act weird with I go out with friends?

[jazz23]

The girl I've been talking to for about 4 months said. Just figured you woulda told me when we was on the phone you was going out with friends does this mean she's jealous or controlling or does she like me like me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm bro that is a little weird of her to get tripped about you not telling her your plans. Couple possibilities:

- She caught feelings and is low-key jealous you're out kickin it without her. Wants you to keep her in the loop.

- Could just be she likes the attention and feels left out not being told what you're up to. Like she wants that involvement.

- Might not trust you and thinks you're sneaking around up to no good if she don't know where you at. Suspicious chick.

- Control issue possible but hard to say for sure. Don't want no possessive crazy lady on your hands tho!

I'd say play it cool but question her on it. Like "why do you care what I do?" See how she responds. Feel it out if it's legitimate concern or just triflin behavior.

Pay attention to any other slightly cray signs. But maybe she just digs you and wants that couple status, ya feel? Have fun but be careful. Let me know if she keeps acting up, bro!

[Harris2294]

She want attention and She want to make sure She is the first priority for you.

[jazz23]

That's what I was already thinking but she doesn't want to prioritize me over her friend

[Abbycado]

Sounds like insecurity or jealousy. That isn't a good sign that early in the relationship.

[jazz23]

Well ik she been through a lot she has ADHD undiagnosed and we are just friends but we talk a lot and been on a lot of dates she say she wants to take it slow so I'm okay with that because I want to take it slow

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Sign of jealousy.

[jazz23]

What is there to be jealous of?

[Iron_Man]

It’s all jealousy talking all jealousy