Would you only date a guy if he shared a similar traumatic event in his life
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No absolutely not. Who wants to base a life on shared trauma?
I mean, if they happen to have a shared experience (divorce, service, etc.) then that might impact where or how they meet, but it shouldn’t be the foundation of their relationship! You need something positive to sow the seeds of love between two people.
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I would assume the attraction is still either there or it's not. Shared trauma is going to give people a connection, but doesn't solidify attraction.
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It would definitely make me feel closer and like I have someone to share that with. Initially it would make me want to date you yeah. Common interests play a big part too but that Initial connection would be the trauma i think
Nope.
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