Why doesn't a girl block you if she doesn't want to talk to you?

[Anonymous]

[Mr_twoface]

Sometimes it doesn’t cross someone’s mind to block them, other times they don’t want to make the statement so clear by blocking you. It means that I don’t want to talk to you now (being upset or whatever) but maybe can open up down the line.

[Asker]

Generally what makes them want to talk later vs now?

[Mr_twoface]

Depends on the situation and why they stopped talking to you now. Generally though, in the moment they can be very upset with the whole situation that they don’t want to talk at all so they can move on but their heart keeps holding them back and they need to ventilate after some time if they can forgive and come back or totally move on. There might be to strong feelings and emotions involved and hence don’t want to block you right now.

[Asker]

We followed each other on social media years after a falling out. I take it as she forgave me but doesn't want to talk to me. I reached out to her but she ignored the text

[Mr_twoface]

Yeah, usually following someone again after a falling out means they've forgiven but not necessarily want to have a conversation with you. Since she’s ignored you already there is no point in pursuing it further.

[Dantec2024]

She probably just wants to keep you as an option for whenever she's bored or doesn't have anyone else to talk to

[Asker]

Even if we don't have no communication at all?

[Dantec2024]

Maybe, she might even have you blocked already

[Asker]

She didn't block my number and I'm not blocked on social media

[Dantec2024]

That's weird, probably just wants an extra follower and maybe she just forgot she has you as a contact

[Asker]

Probably so but I know for sure that she is very active on social media. She knows that I'm still there. She has way more followers than she follows. She simply might not care

[DishLady]

Because blocking is what you do when there's a stalker type situation.

[Anonymous]

She still want the entertainment of you trying.

Do yourself a favor and either block her. Or just ignore her.

[Asker]

I still like her social media post but I don't reach out at all.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess that's ok. I still wouldn't like any more of her posts then she likes of yours.

[Asker]

I don't really post so there is nothing for her to like. I don't read much into liking her post because I like pretty much everything.