Guys, Why would you tell a girl to block you?

[Anonymous]

[Starrrboy]

I did that before.. not that I was gaslighting and stuff.. it's just I was really mad and almost done with her but at the same time I liked her too much to block her myself and cut it off completely so, I just threw it at her lol.. my mind was telling me yes, but my heart was telling me no 🤣🤣.. I was right tho cuz she refused to block me and after a while we patched it up..

[Asker]

That’s good at least I think I overtext he comes back I’m giving him space
He does want me to focus on myself though
Sometimes when he ghosts or needs space I feel abandoned or I’m losing him
He and I both mutually like each other and we’re trying for an emotional and physical connection he's admited he’s conflicted doesn’t know what he wants it’s been a long time for him … romantically

[Starrrboy]

So, he just needs some space I see..

[ProbablyClueless]

I'd either be joking, assuming she wasn't actually going to do it. (the most likely)

Or, I would say it seriously because I was tired of talking to her, but too lazy to bother blocking her myself.

[Asker]

It’s weird he told me this and he didn’t block me we still follow each other
He needs space I kinda text too much

[ProbablyClueless]

If he needs space then it's important for you to respect that need.

[Asker]

Yeah I am he says he needs more than space to he wants to be alone.
It’s hard when I stress about it and miss him. I have abandonment issues I’m working on myself he wants me to focus on myself
He also can’t handle much he drinks a lot I don’t ever drink.

[ProbablyClueless]

It sounds like there might be some pretty major lifestyle incompatibilities between you two

[Asker]

I mean I don’t drink he was recovering but now he’s back to alchol and I don't know if it’s got bad. Last time he was drinking once a week and is trying or so he says

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah, it's like I said; there seems to be some pretty major incompatibilities there. Addicts need to be treated before they can really function as healthy people.

[Asker]

True he was normalish while sober then changed makes me sad

[ProbablyClueless]

Watching an addict struggle is always heart breaking. I hope he is able to get things under control