I just got a girls number what do I do?

[GoGetitGio]

I just got a girls number!!! she's totally cute, short, athletic build blonde hair dark eyes the best butt and small boobs. she's in really good shape and plays soccer like I do. We work in the same building and then we usually go to the same gym after work down the block from the office. We often walk into work at the same time and bump into each other on the reg. We always say hi and all my co worker thinks she's hot!!! So i gave it a shot and asked her for her number and if she was going to the gym. She said yea and said I was cute and gave me her number!!! I have been on a few dates and had a prom date with a girl in HS, but that was last year. I haven't had any experience with a girl since. I am not really interested in dating but i need to do something this girl is totally hot!!! How do I handle this?

[DishLady]

What do you mean “what do I do?” 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
If you liked the girl and for her number … pick up that device called a phone and apply the numbers given in the order they were given to you… (call or text her already)….


If you got her number randomly, and are NOT attracted to her, then discard the number.


Here’s a morning tune for the occasion. (Oldie but goodie… Rick Astley’s “Dial My Number”)

https://youtu.be/R24B3ypgLqc?feature=shared

[GoGetitGio]

Ok what should I say? What’s better a call or text?

[WhitneySnow]

Great!!! Go for it. Ask her out.

[GoGetitGio]

Ok perext!! Should i text or call? What do i say?

[WhitneySnow]

Text her. Just ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Dinner and a movie works. Or coffee if you don’t wanna get too serious. Since you don’t know her that well I assume you don’t know what she’s into, so those are safe alternatives that most girls will like if they’re into you (and it sounds like she is).

[GoGetitGio]

Ok what’s a better date. I have some money so I can take her someplace nice! Should I do a dinner or just a coffe date? What’s a better first date

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude no way, you finally scored her digits! That's what I'm talkin about. Alright, here's what you gotta do:

Text her later tonight, like around 8 or 9. Just say something chill like "Hey it's [your name], we still on for the gym?" Keep it casual.

If she says yeah, meet her there. While you guys lift or whatever, crack jokes and compliment her game. Be all like "damn girl you're beastin on those squats!"

After, ask if she wants a protein shake or something. Pay of course. Let the convo flow natrually, listen when she talks too.

Towards the end of your shake sesh, be like "this was fun, we should do it again sometime. What do you think about grabbing dinner Friday?"

If she agrees, get that date locked in! Get her number too so you can plan direct.

And dude whatever you do, be cool, calm and confident. You sealed the deal once, you got this. Let me know how it goes bro! I'm stoked for ya.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I took my then sophomore girlfriend to mine. I remember picking her up at her parents and her coming out in her prom dress looking so beautiful and adorable.

A lot of fun with all our friends. Dancing, laughing, etc. I sneaked off with my girlfriend to the basement under the gym for a quick blowjob as one of my buddies spiked my punch with viagra for a laugh and close up dancing with my girl she could feel my boner in her stomach and asked me to calm down but my boner wasn't going away and she hessistantly agreed to take care of it for me. We got down there both of us excited and she unzipped me and b4 she could start I came all over her dress and face with the biggest load, up until then I'd never done anything sexual, she was pissed at me.

We'd a great time at the after party too. It was at a friend's who's parents had this big ass house. I sneaked up with my girlfriend to one of the rooms and we tried to have sex for the first time but she was too tight and nervous so I just jerked off over her hot little naked body and we crept downstairs back to the party, she had a curfew at 12 so I took her home but came back to the party and lived it up. Was a perfect night.

[Nikki1989]

Talk to her, obviously. It is not rocket science.

[GoGetitGio]

call her? When like tomorrow? Or Text her? Do i wait or do itASAP?

[DishLady]

Your generation likes the texting thing... so I would text. "Back in my day" a phone was just a phone and you had to pick up and dial the thing and speak to the person... but I'm way older than you. 😂

I don't really see the point in waiting... sometime on the same day is fine. Not IMMEDIATELY upon receiving her number because in my opinion that's a little "thirsty." But don't do the 3-day waiting thing because it irritates and confuses the girl.

[DishLady]

If you got the # at night, for example, text the next morning.

[GoGetitGio]

@DishLady I just texted her! She said what’s up! I said was thinking about you and that smile of yours 100 watts. She said “oh you’re smooth talker I see” now I’m stuck in going to ask her to go to dinner.

[DishLady]

Lol. Nice work.

Stuck? I think you’ve got this….

[GoGetitGio]

@DishLady holy shhhh!! I got a date we’re going on lunch date tomorrow!!

[DishLady]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[GoGetitGio]

@DishLady can you message me I have some questions. Holy smokes I’m soooo nervous

[GoGetitGio]

@dishladyD I texted her, it went like this
Me: hey gorgeous it’s Giovanni from the office

Maddie: hi you, what’s up

Me: I ve been thinking about you and that smile of yours!! 100 watts

Maddie: oh really smooth talker I see

Me: it comes natural when they’re as pretty as you

Me: I wanted to see when you were free so I can take you to dinner

Maddie:

30 minutes go bye

Maddie: take me to lunch tomorrow?

Me: yea that works. What time? I’ll drop by and come get you

Maddie: I like a late lunch can we do like 1?

Me: I’ll see you at 1

[slatyb]

Invite her to lunch or dinner or a hike or whatever you like. Don't make the first date a big deal -- you may find you have nothing to talk about.

[GoGetitGio]

Ok good deal

[Anonymous]

How do u both look

[GoGetitGio]

She looks good she’s kinda short blonde her dark eyes fit nice toned legs and a great butt small frame. I’m kinda average but fit dark hair and eyes. I’m in good shape 5’10 average athleticism built good shape She’s def the hotter one mostly because of her butt and legs

[Opinion Owner]

Ughhh oh. How much do u both weigh? How does she do her hair? Hair length?

[GoGetitGio]

I weigh 175 my guess is she’s prob 120ish I she’s gonna longer hair like down to the shoulder blades I guess. Mine is a fade with a lot on top