What could be one issue that women have when they don’t have kids by 30?

[ChefPapiChulo]

What’s wrong with them?

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Can I get some replies from someone who doesn't have room temp IQ?

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I already have an idea of what it could be.

[Saramad_Hill]

I don't think it matters. I'm almost thirty and I haven't had any kids.

Is there a slight evolutionary drive to procreate? Sure.
Do you have to do it? No.

Women are not baby factories, they're humans with dreams and goals like anyone else. If a baby doesn't fit into their plans, they will probably take steps to avoid having one.

If they haven't had one by thirty it is either by choice or by infertility.

Or, they could also be waiting for the right man to come into their lives and be certain he'll stick around to help raise a child.

At the end of the day, it's up to them whether they want one or not, and it doesn't inherently mean they have a flaw preventing them from doing so either. We don't live in the dark ages anymore, and the world is not in danger of a lack of babies, so they're free to spend their life childless if they want.

"But they might regret it in the future when they can't"
So what. People regret life decisions all the time, it would be infantalizing to tell them they need to spit out a baby when they don't feel like it. Mothers who have them by choice are also more emotionally prepared for the difficult task of childbirth and raising a child to adulthood.

[ChefPapiChulo]

So what's wrong with you that you don't have children yet?

[Saramad_Hill]

Absolutely nothing is wrong with me for being childless. I had the choice to have one awhile ago and I skipped on it.
I'm not financially ready to do so, anyway. And of course, I'd like to be in a stable relationship too. I'm also not against becoming a step dad later anyway.

[ChefPapiChulo]

"I'm also not against becoming a step dad later anyway."

What the hell. I think I might know...

I need to ask further questions, are you ready to answer?

[Saramad_Hill]

I think I'm done answering questions for now. I assume we may never see eye to eye on this. Oh well. Take care.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Alright, take care and thanks for sharing.

[DarkLegacy]

Well this is to do with feminism. Women are choosing their careers these days and putting off kids until they can afford them. Im for it as it means they don't take up so much social housing and benefits as they did in the past.

[ChefPapiChulo]

So it’s a good thing?

[DarkLegacy]

It is better then them taking much need housing and benefits yes.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Why not create work programs for these single moms?

[DarkLegacy]

@chefpapichulo You live in the USA do you. Here in the UK we are bounded human rights laws and the feminazis

[TycheKairos]

The world is not suitable for your dreaminess. Can't you see reality? Life is not about getting married and having children. You have to be blind not to see the problems that will prevent this.

[ChefPapiChulo]

That’s actually 100% wrong. It’s in our genetic DNA to reproduce.

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone has the urge though to reproduce

[Brittanyroseee]

Even animals will kill and reject their young

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone has the desire or urge to have babies

[TycheKairos]

You sound very classical. And you don't think about it at all. So what's the point of asking questions and waiting for answers? Producing is present in all living things, and having such an option does not necessarily mean that you should do it.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Brittanyroseee stop spam posting on my question.

[Brittanyroseee]

No i will continue to spam post on a public post

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone wants to reproduce

[ChefPapiChulo]

I’m just fact checking you.

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone wants babies

[Brittanyroseee]

Not everyone wants to breed

[TycheKairos]

Only another woman could understand a woman. Male intelligence, unfortunately, is never enough. Let me help you. In my opinion, sexuality is not mandatory. Not everyone has to be willing, have regular sex. Not everyone has to get married, have children, and want them in the same way. As for the animal; You know, there is evolution, and there is a situation that is encoded in all living things. We humans have developed differently. We have added things like conscience, compassion, thought. An animal rejects its baby only if: it senses that the baby will not survive. Some babies are unfortunately born with weak immunity, get sick, etc., and the mother unfortunately has to kill and eliminate this baby because of this. Because otherwise the lives of other babies are at risk, including your own. Unfortunately, the system of animal health treatment has developed to a certain extent, and more does not require human hands and assistance. This does not indicate that animals are vicious. It shows the workings of evolution. The traits we have at birth are not in the hands of any of us. Also, when the baby is stillborn, the mother can eat the baby. I beg you not to see it as murderous.
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[ChefPapiChulo]

I need scientific evidence for these claims.

[TycheKairos]

Brother, the issue here is not specifically you. You are nothing, you are not important. The question was asked, I answered. Closed topic, ok?

[ChefPapiChulo]

I'm going to be honest, I have no idea what the fuck you are on about.

[TycheKairos]

You're in this pathetic state because you don't have an idea. Stop hunching over people's backs and perverting, buffoon.

[leahzrc]

I am probably not going to have kids because I am a psychopath that nobody will want to have kids with

[Xia1994]

There’s nothing wrong with them, it’s perfectly okay to be a woman and have kids after 30. We’re all different, with different timelines, different preferences, different lives and different bodies and it’s okay, it’s normal.

[ChefPapiChulo]

It’s actually not. That’s how autism happens.

[Xia1994]

@chefpapichulo you’re either trolling or you’re out of touch with reality.

[Brittanyroseee]

Autism is genetic my guy….

[ChefPapiChulo]

Which part is trolling?

[Brittanyroseee]

@Xia1994 men like this are so wierd😂they only view women to be breeding objects like farm animals

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Brittanyroseee wait, there are studies that link autism with children born from mothers who are in their 30s.

[Brittanyroseee]

Ok? And? What does that have to do with women who don’t want kids?

[Xia1994]

@Brittanyroseee lol 😂 tell me about it! He’s trolling! I think he’s bored 😂

[Brittanyroseee]

I had a man on another thread tell me im useless because I won’t give a man a child and its like what are we? Cattle?

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Brittanyroseee she said it’s normal to have kids after they’re 30. It’s not. That’s how kids end up born autistic or with other defects.

[Brittanyroseee]

It is normal though and you are not a doctor and cannot speak for every child that is born to a woman after 30 and autism is genetic

[Xia1994]

@Brittanyroseee people like that have control issues 😂 and they’re up for a rude awakening! People have the right to live the life they want! It’s perfectly okay for you to not want kids darling 💗

[Brittanyroseee]

And not everyone wants kids

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Brittanyroseee is reading an issue for you?

[Brittanyroseee]

I think its an issue for you since you can’t accept other opinions and you try to be a doctor

[ChefPapiChulo]

No one is saying you can’t live the life you want.

[Xia1994]

You’re busy telling women what to do with their bodies so you’re telling them to live a life you want not a life that they want fyi @chefpapichulo

[ChefPapiChulo]

I'm not telling anyone anything though. wtf

[DarkLegacy]

@chefpapichulo no one has ever proven what causes Autism and there is nothing wrong with it.

[Brittanyroseee]

Maybe they don’t want any?😂i don’t and im 26! Not everyone desires babies or has that “parental instinct” towards them:)

[ChefPapiChulo]

Maybe you’re open to probing questions that digs deep into your psyche?

[Brittanyroseee]

You posted this and im commenting 😂

[Xia1994]

Well said! I agree 💯.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Yes…and?

[Billlewis]

@Brittanyroseee I assure you that you're not alone, Goddess, and I find it reprehensible that guys are trying to make you feel like an unattractive potential significant other because you don't want children.

[Brittanyroseee]

Am i not allowed to comment common sense? Not everyone wants kids or desires them. Its that simple

[Billlewis]

I know, right? The irony is that there are probably more guys today who don't want kids than guys who do.

[slatyb]

Nothing. Maybe they don't want to have children.

[CrabCakes11]

Probably because they don’t want any

[John_Cobretti]

Spent their 20s hooking up

[ChefPapiChulo]

Ah, sounds gross.