Are you often aware when a guy frequently stares at you?

[Anonymous]

There was girl I was hired with that I didn’t originally sit by but still seen when she would come in and out of our training room then when seating got moved she got seated next to me I don’t know if it’s a ballsy thing but I found myself looking over more frequently she never seems bothered by it. Actually sometimes I catch her looking over while playing with her hair

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, you gotta be careful doing that too much staring. Most girls will definitely notice, even if she's not saying anything. It can come off kinda creepy, you know? Even if you think she's cute.

I'd say try talking to her more when you get the chance, crack some jokes to make her comfortable. Then it's not so weird if you happen to look over. But don't just zone out staring - that's a good way to weird a girl out.

If you catch her looking back sometimes that's a good sign. But play it cool, don't make it obvious you noticed right away. Maybe next time you guys get a break, walk over casually and be like "Sup, how's it going so far?" Get to know her name. Who knows, if she seems cool you could try asking for her number once you're not working together anymore.

Just don't mess it up by creeping her out with staring. Girls can tell when they're being checked out, so just be chill about it. Good luck man!

[Asker]

Well we have had multiple conversations she also is super close to my hometown and yes I do catch her looking over frequently cause she sits next to me

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahhh nice dude, sounds like you've been chatting her up then! If she's opened up about stuff like where she's from too and y'all live close, that's a good sign she's into getting to know you better too.

Any girl who actively listens and engages when you talk is feeling it for sure. And she keeps sneaking those little looks your way - my man, she is for sure into you! Like I said, keep doing what you're doing as far as talking and smiling at each other.

Maybe next time you get a chance to talk one on one, casually mention something fun going on in your hometown this weekend. See if she wants to check it out with you. Play it off casual like "oh I was thinking of hitting up this thing, you should come!"

If she seems excited at the idea, bam - you've got yourself a little date set up my dude! I'd say go for it. She sounds interested, so take a chance and ask her. You never know till you try, and I'm betting she says yes, bro! LMK what happens!

[TycheKairos]

Why are you so antisocial and clueless in your life?

[Asker]

Well first I’m on the spectrum so I’m horrible at reading social cues secondly I have hardly dated or had any romantic relationships in my life

[TycheKairos]

Okay, so that's a problem. You need to know what's what, even if you don't experience it.

[Asker]

So what I highlighted above is it anything at all

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, I can usually sense it.