Girl at the bar asked me to buy her a drink. Was she interested or playing games?

[Anonymous]

Some random girl at the bar came up to me and asked me to buy her a drink. She told me her and her friends go to the same bar. Anyways later on that night I took her and her friend to the other bathroom because the 1st one was locked, and she asked me to guard the door. Why would she do this was she interested or playing games?

[hahahmm]

a.) She likes to get free drinks.

b.) She's interested.

c.) A & B.

d.) She usually sets guys up to get robbed but she changed her mind because you were the only guy who didn't immediately try to get in her panties.

e.) All of the above.

[jshm2]

Neither.

People on drink and drugs do random shit sometimes.

I remember buying the bar a round, and ordering a couple of girls food as well, when high.

The barwoman was chatty, and her manager was getting on her case. I just interpreted that with drunk logic that the manager would fuck off and make food, and she would stand there and pour drinks.

[DishLady]

The girl's gotta use the toilet and you're asking if her request to guard the broken stall door is a sign of interest? No, buddy. It was you or nothing to keep her from going potty in front of the universe... Was it a game? Also doubtful. It's not all about you...

[Asker]

It wasn’t broken at all there was a door and a lock.

[DishLady]

A girl hitting on you isn't doing it while she's trying to take a leak, ok?

[Asker]

I never said that just thought it was weird.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@DishLady AND @asker. Sometimes I'm just here for the hilarious conversations. Thank you both for that one! :))

[chrissykerdock]

unfortunately it doesn't mean anything if she asks you to buy her a drink it's kind of brazen there was something wrong with her

[moneymagnet24]

It's been long time you didn't given me blowjob

[HappyWoman34]

Sounds like she was keen on you…

[Anonymous]

If a girl randomly comes up to you and asks you to buy her a drink, I suggest you do the following:

1) Calmly look at her, turn your head a bit and smile
2) Raise and eyebrow (still smiling) and say, "Seriously?"
3) When she says yes, you respond: "I'll tell you what--If you can engage me in an interesting and entertaining conversation for 5 minutes, I'll buy you a drink."

Then, see what happens. If she genuinely entertains you, buy her a drink. If she doesn't, tell her she failed and either offer her the chance to try again with another 5 mins, or walk away if it was REALLY bad.

Unless she's VERY cool, the likelihood of her being able to LEAD an interesting 5 min conversation (note--you let HER lead the convo--NOT YOU!) is very low.

[BadApple69]

To start off with… some girls don’t like paying for drinks. They know they could get a guy to buy them one just by asking. Sleazy but true.
Now to answer your question was she just playing… did you get her number? If not she was just playing.

[CrabCakes11]

How is asking for a drink sleazy?

[BadApple69]

If she is interested in the guy it’s not. If she has no interest in the guy other than his wallet (or its contents)… that’s sleazy.

[19magic]

@CrabCakes11 to me if she was interested she would have asked 'can I buy you a drink?' that's what I'd do in that situation. If someone were to offer me a drink, then sure I'd accept it - if I was interested, but to ask someone to buy me one that's a bit... rude and somewhat condescending (at least in my opinion).

[CrabCakes11]

@19magic he can just say no if he’s not interested. Women are capable of making the first move

[19magic]

I never said women can't make the first move, hell in my reply to you was an example of a woman making the first move.

If I flipped the script and a guy walked up to you and said can you buy me a drink you think that's a good pick up line. Vs offering you a drink, one shows being sleazy/rude and the other shows selflessness and vulnerability.

[BadApple69]

@CrabCakes11 I love women that make the first move and actually welcome it. But a woman not interested but just asking me to buy them a drink isn’t a woman making the first move, it’s just a woman trying to get a free drink because she is a woman.

[CrabCakes11]

Then don’t buy the drink

[BadApple69]

Don’t ask for a drink if you have no interest.

[RebelinSteel]

No she was just asking what normally you would do if for some reason you took a girl to the toilet (why you did that in first place is weird), anyhow it was a simple request to not let anyone else go in.

[the29thhuman]

Whatever she was doing, you have no boundaries.
Try talking to her, try asking her about it, try saying no, trying this or that. Can’t blame her when it takes two.

[Curmudgeon]

Your response here should have been (and if this happens in the future, should be) to reply, "And why should I do that?" With a big fake smile. And see how she reacts.

[Miristheiss]

Of course not. She is using the simps to get free drinks. Women who are truly attracted to guys aren't saying "bye me a drink".

Avoid any women who says that.

[provokeesmokee]

She wanted a free drink and since you didn't drug her, I'm guessing she felt you'd be a reluable lookout.

[JacobJordan]

She wanted free drinks and figured you were an easy victim

[236color]

Could be either. I'd say odds are better she's playing games, but not 100% sure.

[Avicenna]

Well, you're there to meet women, so buying them drinks is part of it. Did you talk more to her, get her social media or number?

[JonCobretti]

She's broke so she's begging to you in a fancy way

[Anastacia1989]

Maybe she just wanted a free drink from you? Sounds like an opportunistic type of a person to me….

[dolemite58]

If a girl asks u to buy her a drink she’s running game on you. If a girl really wants you she won’t ask for anything.

[Anonymous]

So you went into the male or female bathroom? Doesn't matter, either is viewed as what it should be from onlookers. Looks fake and the question your asking is a question you already know the answer to.

[serious]

I cannot say for sure if she was playing mind games.

[Unit1]

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[OtterMan68]

she's just out for free drinks. Might be a game her and her friend play to see who can get the most free stuff

[KrakenAttackin]

When a girl asks you to buy her a drink, you should reply "I only buy drinks for girls I am sleeping with".

[Kelly6]

No

If she was interested in you she would buy you drink.

[genericname85]

she just wanted a drink and remembered she's a woman.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Buy her a drink. Socialize or just drink in your basement alone.

[Asker]

I did socialize a little bit… but the whole bathroom thing is confusing…

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Yeah. In this day and age I can see that. If she goes in the men's room, run.

[Forcedtochoosegender]

Seem more like playing a game you have to do some more searching on that behaviour to prove other wise as me if you want more to know about this

[Filthy_Immigrant]

playing games obviously. never buy a random chick any drinks, trust me is not worth the price

[bobby_bush_eater]

Sounds pretty normal to me. She was probably doing coke in the bathroom though lol

[msc545]

She did this to get you to buy her drinks and maybe more.

[Anonymous]

She probably wanted free drinks and someone to giard the door

[whistlingwh0res]

She is using you. If you refuse her buying it she will be upset and she will come back wanting to have sex with you cuz she is a whore

[MatureMan40]

Both is possible. You can understand by talking to her for a while.

[sheikalana]

Dude, she was using you!

[SugarSugarplum]

She probably just wanted a free drink.

[captain_voidwalker]

She wanted a free drink

[gorydetails]

she scammed you out of a free drink.

[Anonymous]

that's telling you she's a hooker

[Anonymous]

It was just a question. Chill out.

[Vegasrunner]

Obviously and she found a good simp in you.

[jahaims]

She saw a weak guy and used him

[impalabill77]

I would say interested.

[Anonymous]

She scammed you for a drink

[MaaikeVee]

Only in your mind.