Independent women saying “I really want to kiss you right now” that means something right?

[Anonymous]

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I flirted all the way up to that moment and I’m oblivious to hints.

So she had to tell me I missed an opportunity and spelt it out for me so I couldn’t get that wrong.

I’ve never been more sure of chemistry, connection, mutual interest and the wandering hands and her putting mine where she wanted them.

An ex an unresolved feelings came back around and stopped any progress with her and I. They have broken up again he dumped her a second time, she’s kinda broken atm.


Question

She’s fiercely independant so spelling it out plain as day for me meant something

And

I’ve been emotionally dead most of my life, but this was the first time I’ve actually and truly felt something and it felt mutual and wanted on both sides.


It had to mean something right?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, it sounds like you really connected with this girl! For her to so openly say she wants to kiss you, as an independent woman, that definitely meant something significant was there between you two.

Girls don't usually just spell it out like that unless they're really feeling a guy. And it seems like you were both feeling the chemistry and vibes. Sucks her ex came back around and messed with the timing, but I bet those feelings are still there under the surface for her.

The fact that this is the first time you felt that mutual spark too - dude that's huge! Don't sell that short. Even if you can't pursue anything immediately, don't forget how real it felt in that moment with her.

I'd say gently check in on her as she sorts through her ex drama again. Let her know you care and are there for her as a friend. And if she comes around when the dust settles, well, I think you know there could be potential there! Stay hopeful man.

[strateguy632]

correct she wanted you to know she found you very attractive

[In_Trance]

It means she wants to kiss you rn