Are girls yandere?

[Unit1]

Yandere is a portmanteau of the Japanese terms "Yanderu" (Mentally deranged/unstable) and "Deredere" (Love struck) combined carrying the meaning being Lovesick.

Yandere includes behavior, that includes but is not limited to eliminating your rivals, that may take away your love interest "Senpai".

Yandere's say things like "He belongs to me and me alone" and "I won't let anybody come between us" and "He has no choice but to be with me".

Yes

No

Only some girls

Few or very few girls are yandere

Your brain has been fried like a fried egg and is rotting *facepalms* go touch grass! And more importantly go interact with girls! No, your AI Girlfriend doesn't count. Real world girls only! (maybe I do have some brain damage but how would I know?)

[alice55]

Men are more likely to be Yandere than women to be honest especially in France, there's hundred of French men killing their wife / ex wife, / girlfriend / ex girlfriend when she tries to leave him / have another boyfriend rather than the reverse.

There's some women that get jealous and possessive but nowhere near yandere as for the men there's plenty of French dude who are this ways in real life even to the point of killing. Some months ago an old man killed his wife (both were in their 70s) cause she wanted to divorce. I can't count the amount of time where a guy killed his partner because she wanted to leave him.

And even more are physically violent (but not killer), 99 % of my sister boyfriend were crazy jealous and possessive, always blowing up for tiny reasons and when they felt she was getting away they even slapped her and throw stuff to her face, broke several things into their house ( broke the heater, a window, plate, glasses, make up, skin care, etc...). And those are quite basic break up / jealous issue stuff, it's extremely common. Men are even more jealous and violent in France than 50 years ago because of the high percentage of Muslim and even without converting French men adopt their culture in a way (violence toward their partner, jealousy / posession, controlling behavior, wanting low body count women, modest dressed, etc... basically they take what they like from Muslim culture).

So are women Yandere no (except Ukrainian one, one blew up to her British boyfriend during arguing and menaced him with a knife, which later was reveled to be a very common behavior there), also Muslim women are quite nasty when they get cheated on bu their men.

But usually in France the yandere are men not women.

[alice55]

There's also multiple case of rugby player and football beating down their wife. One Lucas Hernandez was followed by Spanish police (he played in a Spanish club) for beating his wife and then for stalking, following her and not respecting the restraining order, he was lucky not to be sent to jail, especially since Spanish police are way harsher on those matter than French police, in France they don't care just say to the woman to go back to her parents house.
But yea here restraining order are a joke nobody respect them at all.

[Unit1]

Tough stuff. I wouldn't risk myself putting myself in such a position.
There's nothing useful I can see from abusing girls, or anybody for that matter.
Evil. That's what it is. Pure evil.

Then again, I get this Yandere stuff from the media, not from the real world outside. Figure I experience more of the opposite sex from digital media than from the real world female humans 🤪🤪🤪

[alice55]

They don't actually think when they do this kind of stuff they act on impulsion (pretty common in Latin countries, pretty are very impulsive here).
It's just they get a weird feeling of owning their partner (they also act the same with their children, saying how this is their children, in their house and they can do whatever they want to hem because they own them. ) They have this weird feeling of possession and ownership towards women and children I would guess it's a cultural things of French people knowing this doesn't exist in Nordic / Germanic countries.
They abuse their woman when they feel she's leaving them and they don't want her to leave, they try to make her afraid or something as if making afraid of you would make them want to stay what clown they're.
They also thin it's normal just as creating fake account because they got blocked or harassing them at their house / work place making them get fired cause they disturb everyone peace.
Multiple time I saw the guy harassing his girlfriend / wife / ex in a grocery shop / the street or in a restaurant (he even tried to break her car by kicking it...).
Or how my nerighour keep on fighting and screaming so much I hear them from by closed bedroom door.
They feel like they own them and she can't leave up until he decide he didn't want hr anymore if she dare to leave before then there's hell during a couple of weeks / months.
Even divorced husband always refer to their ex as their "wife" they never say ex just My wife. all the time even if they're divorced during 3 years (a divorce take 7 / 8 years in France if one of the partner refuse it).

I guess men love jealous women cause they feel wanted and loved, women loved them for this reasons too, reasons why they don''t like and don't take unposessive guys even if it lead to trouble once she want to leave him. Jealousy / yandere make everyone feel loved.

[LaurenM1997]

No we are real life human beings these things you fantasise over is fake

[Meropatrick]

Lol some girls are like that indeed

[LaurenM1997]

@Meropatrick you referring to me?

[DrPepper12]

Girls should be "down there" not "yandere" tbh.

[Yannae]

Some, avoid them like the plague.