Stranger versus friend caught checking you out. Which is worse?

[Anonymous]

Is there a difference in how offended or disgusted you would be?

If a bunch of construction workers were checking you out, and making it noticeable, you’d be creeped out right?

What if it was your cute coworker, who’s always respectful to you, and you kinda like him and perhaps hope he asks you out?

What if he was checking out your boobs because you wore a transparent shirt to work, but he was doing it when you weren’t looking, and you turned and caught him. He tries to play it off.

How would you feel?

[DishLady]

A friend suddenly checking you out is a little odd… definitely unexpected beyond the basic “ok, you don’t have lipstick on your teeth” sort of thing.

[Asker]

The thing is I really like her. I never told her. I do try to sneak in looks.

I didn’t find her attractive when I first met her, but after spending so much time with her at work, she suddenly became a 10 to me.

She also wore an over shirt all day. It wasn’t until we were alone together, she took off that overshirt and revealed her transparent undershirt. I’m really hopeful she did it for me lol

[DishLady]

It COULD BE a side effect of spending so much time around her. Get some space for a few days and then see if you still feel the same way.

[Asker]

I spend 4 days away from her from time to time. Is that enough?

[DishLady]

Possibly. It depends on you — how much time do you need to get her off your mind then see her with clear eyes?

[Asker]

I think even if I spent a year away from her, I’d still think of her

[DishLady]

Sigh… ok we’ll try your best, young Anon.

[BlondeGoneWild]

I never feel disgusted or offended when people check me out. It’s empowering

[chrissykerdock]

put on a minidress you'll get checked out by all

[DishLady]

😂😂😂

[Agape93]

Stranger. They're dangerous.

[Asker]

Would you be offended if a guy you liked and know for a couples years was checking you out behind your back?

[Agape93]

Does it matter?

[Asker]

ofc it’s sort of why I’m asking

[Agape93]

Why does it matter?

[Asker]

It matters because I want to know. It’s out of curiosity. If you don’t want to answer that’s fine. Just leave it at that

[Agape93]

So it matters to you only. Gotcha. Later

[Asker]

Yes that’s what I was saying

[Nikki1989]

It makes no difference.