Why is it so hard to find a basic girl?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

It’s not if you look in the right places. But guys are easily distracted by the non-basic girls… so they get stuck in situations….

[CrabCakes11]

It’s not. They just don’t want you

[Asker]

really? I'm in the top 5% of men in terms of looks based off of how women treat me. and some polls I found on what percentage of men that women rate as attractive (only 5% are a 7/10 and above)

[CrabCakes11]

Who cares if you’re physically attractive if ever other aspect of you is terrible. You seem to have a horrible personality

[Asker]

you're right, I'm broke. and have bad conversation skills. I blame my parents for home schooling me. and then I got sick for 4 years and couldn't get a job or complete college. so yeah life wanted to teach me what being a loser was like I guess. I got to feel like a winner all throughout my childhood just because of how amazing I was. high energy, loveable, very cute, etc

[CrabCakes11]

Being poor isn’t really an issue. The rest is and it can be worked on

[Asker]

I'm trying my best to work on myself but I'm still sick. it's hard to explain because it's not a common illness. the easiest way to describe it is heavy metal toxicity. like lead in the water from an old house. except I just got too much selenium from a multivitamin. unfortunately the effects are potentially deadly. other side effects include disabling confusion and disorientation, nausea, low energy, sleepiness, depression etc.

[Asker]

I only discovered the cause after it got very bad. I started taking more vitamins because I was told to by someone. that's when my otherwise mild symptoms got so bad I had to see a doctor. one night I contemplated going to the emergency room. but I didn't because the episode only lasted 10 or 15 minutes... then I went back to enduring the constant low grade confusion and light headedness

[CrabCakes11]

I see. I’m sorry to hear. I hope you sort it out soom

[CrabCakes11]

*soon

[Asker]

they say it takes up to 350 days for HALF of the selenium you've taken to be excreted. it's been maybe 150 days where I've actively avoided selenium. my symptoms are sometimes better and sometimes worse. usually better after a good sweat, I feel a clear headedness. suggesting no permanent damage is being done at least to my ability to think. I hope.

[CrabCakes11]

That’s good. Hopefully you feel better before then, I’m sorry it’s taking so long.

[SweetJoyGirl]

It isn’t hard.

[MzAsh]

It’s hard for you

[In_Trance]

It's not

[Asker]

have you looked around