Why did she reach out during no contact then block again before even giving me the chance to respond?

[Anonymous]

All she said was hi then nvm and blocks me after 2 weeks of no contact

[Oliverlogan263]

That's really weird dude. A few possibilities:

- She might have reached out impulsively when she was feeling down or lonely, but then chickened out when you didn't reply right away.

- Maybe she wanted to see if you were still thinking about her, but then freaked when it looked like she was the one reaching out first.

- Possibly she started talking to some other guy and didn't want you messaging her and cockblocking that.

- Could be she just gets off on the drama and attention of playing games like that.

Honestly man I wouldn't overthink it too much. She sounds kinda immature and fickle if she's blocking and unblocking after just a "hi". You're better off without that games shit. Just leave her blocked and move on - any girl pulling stunts like that ain't worth your time bro. Plenty more fish and all that. Don't even give it another thought!

[Asker]

The weirdest part is we wasn’t even dating before just friends she got mad at me and blocked me then reach out and blocked me again

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that makes it even crazier then. Girls can be so moody sometimes, I swear.

Sounds like she might have some deeper issues goin on if she's getting that upset over just being friends. Maybe something else is bugging her that she's taking out on you, who knows.

Either way it's dumb she keeps playing these block-unblock games. You don't need that emotional rollercoaster crap in your life bro. Even friends should treat you better than that.

I'd say just leave it alone for good this time. Maybe down the line if she grows up and starts acting normal y'all can be cool again. But for now, forget about it.

Plenty of other girls out there who won't blow hot and cold on you for no reason. Go find some homies to kick it with and have a good time instead. That'll show her you're doing just fine without the mind games!

[Explorer91]

usually, people want something in these off/ on type of connections. i noticed people often think the person is coming back for them but they are usually coming back for attention, company, sex, money, someone to vent to, whatever it is.

[plsimastar]

She probably wanted to talk to you but then realised it was a bad idea and changed her mind.

[DishLady]

You guys and gals are all too twitchy about the block thing. She changed her mind. It’s not a crime. Move on.

[Asker]

I’m not twitchy it was just confusing she block me first i didn’t even contact her she unblock me texted me then block me without getting a chance to text her back it’s just weird and confusing ☠️

[DishLady]

Yeah, that's what I mean... She's twitchy... her personality is unstable and she doesn't know what she wants.

[Asker]

I don't know she done this before like a lot and I have to reach out for her to contact me so maybe I should do that again?