Do you guys find this weird/intentionally?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I have been living together for three years now. I pay full rent and she covers other bills. We live together but it seems as though whenever she’s upset with me or whenever I do something wrong our home suddenly becomes “Her” home, our bed becomes “her” bed. She makes less than me so she can’t cover any big expense like the rent and not to mention the place is in my name. She has a bunch of cats, which is why we don’t have furniture. When I talk to her about getting them nurtured or at least getting rid of one or two of them she gets sensitive. I put up with a lot living with her but yet she gets so territorial.

[kylee2437]

You are one good man for not kicking her out of your house, even though she’s making your living situation a living hell, on top of the fact that having many cats and not being able to financially support them is animal abuse. You are dating a bad person.

[Asker]

They’re no abused, they’re fed, yet have water but it’s just too many of them. She doesn’t take them to get their nails filed down, they stay on our bed so it’s fur everywhere.

[kylee2437]

@asker cats do not like being in packs, so depending on how many she has, it can definitely be abuse if there’s not enough space and such. People do this all the time where they hoard cats, don’t necessarily care about how the cats feel and make the living conditions a living hell for the people that don’t enjoy the cats

[SweetJoyGirl]

Pardon me, but what exactly is your question, hun? 😅

[Asker]

I meant “intentional” as in when she does this does this does she do it on purpose to get a reaction out of me.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Possibly.
I think you need to sit her down and have a conversation. Like communicate all this to her.

[the29thhuman]

When she gets like that, do you try to talk to her while she’s in that state?

[DishLady]

She sounds a little coocoo….