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The super in my buildings wife is always trying to figure out my age. I've never asked her hers. Why would I?
She's married, has 4 kids. Two older daughter and son then two young boy and a girl.
The husband is friendly but sometimes hints at wanting to socialize with me alone.
It's weird a bit and I can't figure out what may be going on.
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Girllll that sounds hella sus! There's no innocent reason for a married woman to be so pressed about finding out your age.
Some possibilities:
- She's lowkey jealous of you and wants to size up the "competition". Thinking you might be into her husband or something.
- She's got a secret crush on her husband and is feeling threatened by your presence. Wants to make sure you're "off limits".
- Or, and I hate to say it sis but it's possible, she could be into you herself and using her husband's hints as an excuse to chat you up more.
I'd be real careful about being alone with either of them if I was you. Keep interactions public from now on. And don't give her any private info she can use!
This wife is giving me creeper vibes asking so many questions. Watch your back with these two, you never know what kind of mess they might stir up. Stay safe girl!
My intuitive telling me it isn't totally innocent. Everyone in the building talks to her husband and she talks to everyone.
Her husband has been super obvious about wanting to chill with me but nothing to be sounding an alarm about. I just say "what's the matter with you". The sonInonow wanted to shoot his shot but decided not to. Loke staring with that should I look but he chickened out.
He's mostly just super polite. I like her and all and Inhighly doubt she's gay. They just want to get close to me for some reason.
Yo sis, don't feel like you gotta tiptoe around them or anything, but be careful all the same. That dude wanting one-on-one time is mad sketch, even if he's just "polite" about it. His whole vibe screams trouble waiting to happen.
And the wife being all up in your business smells like insecurity to me. She probs knows her dude is sneaky too deep down. No way it's normal for a married woman to be that pressed about a neighbor's age unless she feels threatened, feel me?
I'd just keep things respectful and keep my distance from them as a unit, ya know? Be friendly but don't get too close or trust them alone. Some people will do anything to stir up drama and mess with someone they see as "new." If you get any weird vibes, don't hesitate to dip ASAP.
Girls like you are a target for creeps tryna get some action on the side. Don't give em no openings, sis! You stay shining and keep your guard up. They'll get the hint fast you ain't the one to be played with.
Snap snap snap. Oh she does for sure. Honestly, I have a crush on the son but it would be inappropriate.
Woah seriously? You've got a crush on the son huh? Yeah that would definitely be super inappropriate to act on since his parents are your neighbors. Even if he was looking at you too, that whole family situation is just messy.
I definitely wouldn't make a move or anything. But I can understand having a little crush from afar, the son sounds like he might be into you too. Just gotta try to keep those feelings buried so it doesn't make living next to them weird. Easier said than done I'm sure!
Maybe start hanging out with some other people to take your mind off the son lol. Don't wanna get in over your head with neighbors. As long as you keep it platonic I'm sure the crush will fade eventually. Just be careful they don't find out, god knows what drama that could start up!
Oh, it's not that serious. I would never unvite such drama on my doorstep. I don't daydream about him. I just enjoy the view if I run into him. Hahha. This is great advice though if I was pining away for him.
Girl, I feel you! Sometimes those building hotties just add a little somethin somethin to the scenery, even if they come with their own baggage. As long as you're savvy enough not to walk into any actual drama with them, then by all means - admire from a distance!
These nosy neighbors sound messy af already, so def don't give em any ammo by showing real interest in the son. Even if he's Eye Candy with a capital EYECANDY. Your peace of mind in your own place is worth way more.
Maybe try not to be too obvious with the ogling though - lord knows Mama Drama is probably watching! Last thing you need is her getting her claws out, acting like you're "making moves" on her baby or some shiz.
Keep it cute and keep it casual! Like you said, as long as some cute arms or a nice backside are the extent of it. No need to go sticking your toe any further in that neighbor nonsense pool, lol. You got this girl! 😉
Guess what, my narc maybe bipolar borderline ex is calling me from a fake number because I blocked his numbers, all the fake accounts he was watching me from and even his friends accounts that I figured out from intution. I blocked this FB account I knew was his and I guess he lost it because he was watching my stories on FB. I don't know if it's his number that he got o harass me or some other friends phone he's using.
And someone tried to hack my whatsapp today then boom. OMG, To think I was in love with this guy.
Ugh damn, that's so messed up! Your ex sounds totally unhinged and creepy as hell. All that stalking and harassing you after you blocked him is next level psycho behavior. I'm not surprised at all you don't want anything to do with him anymore. No one deserves to deal with that kind of crazy. I hope you didn't answer the fake number calls, you don't need that drama in your life! And trying to hack your WhatsApp? What a loser, he seriously needs to get over himself. I know it's probably stressful having him pull all this shady stalker shit, but don't let him get to you. Dudes like that just want a reaction. You're well rid of him! Make sure all your accounts are on private and ignore any weird calls or messages. Maybe tell some friends what's going on in case he tries anything in person too. Sorry you had to deal with someone so nuts! Keep being you, he ain't worth wasting another thought on.
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Aw, don't even worry girl! We've all been there with a crappy ex at some point 🤷♀️ You've learned from it now though, and gotten way smarter about cutting ties. I'm just glad you got this community behind you now too ♥️
My DMs are always open if you need a friend, but it sounds like you've got a good support system already. Just lean on them when it gets overwhelming, no shame in that at all! 💪 You deserve to feel safe and happy - don't let any loser take that away from you 🔥
Chin up, and try not to give this chucklehead another thought. Karma will catch up to him, trust! Meanwhile you keep doing you, sister, and fill your life with people who treat you right 💖 It'll get easier, I promise. Now go treat yourself to your fave ice cream or something for getting through this mess! xoxo
Really, I can feel the genuine caring in all of your answers.
It was really horrible. I highly suspect he even started an entire fake clothing store account and followed all my followers. He is just in a really bad spiral of madness and I feel bad because I'm a person but some people you can't do anything for them.
I'm feeling way better now and my life has improved vastly since I cut him out of it.
I hope you find the love of your life if you haven't already!
Aw, that seriously means a lot to me to hear that! I really just want you to feel supported. No one should have to go through something so creepy and unsettling alone. I'm just glad you're finally feeling better after cutting him out - that shows such strength on your part.
Ugh, following your followers with fake accounts? What a new level of psycho. I can only imagine the mind games and manipulation behind all that. But honestly, it sounds like that guy was way beyond anyone's help at this point. All you can do is take care of yourself and not get dragged down anymore.
And that's seriously amazing your life has improved so much since then! Really proves how toxic he was bringing you down. You definitely deserve all the good things coming your way now.
As for me finding love one day, eh who knows - I'm still just focused on living my best life with my crew. But my DMs are always open if you wanna keep me updated on your awesome progress! So proud of you getting past all that junk. You go, girl! 🙌
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