Are those people genuine who talks to everyone and please everyone?

[Anonymous]

I know a girl who tries to please everyone who comes across... Whether she knows them or not she tries to be in their good books.. that's not it because afterwards she bitches about them with me. What is this behaviour.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I can't say, because I've never been a people pleaser. I wouldn't say anything behind someone's back that I wouldn't say to their face!

[DryGermanGuy]

I actually knew a guy like that. It took me a while to realize, but 80% of that was an act! I have no idea how one can keep up such acting, all day, every day.

[Asker]

Oh I know this girl... and she keeps on acting... Preparing food and feeding other girls to increase acquaintance and to make them like her..(we live in a hostel) ... She also hugs people whom she has met 1/2 hr ago... Like how can someone be so comfortable in just little time... If you see her photos with people you might think of she knows them since birth.. but no that's not true met half an hour ago

[DryGermanGuy]

I don't necessarily doubt that such people exist, I just think they are very rare.

[worldscolide]

They aren't genuine. It's usually a defense mechanism when they are like that

[Asker]

Defence against what?