Do women start just as many unnecessary fights with their kids as they do with their husbands/boyfriends?

[Bethany22]

Do you think that women chose fights more wisely with their kids than they do with their men, or do you think that women get angry over the small stuff with their kids just as often as they do with their men?

[Alli112]

I mean... I guess if you're the type of person to start "unnecessary fights" then you'd probably do it to a lot of people, not just a partner, but I don't think most people, regardless of gender, actually start unnecessary fights to begin with. (Then again, if the person is like mentally unwell and acting abusively, etc then maybe they do limit their actions to certain targets based on whatever's going on internally.) I think that parents do try to hide fights from their kids, but that's a little different obviously.

More importantly, why are we implying that women collectively have a strong tendency to start unnecessary fights with their partners? Like, that is so far from the case the majority of the time so I don't think it's a good thing to present it that way. (I know a few people do it (the unwell people mentioned above) but it's weird to assume that it's most people.

[Crimsyjo]

Same amount haha. But it really depends on how "good" they are. Kids probably push your buttons more deliberately. A partner (male) does it without realising lol. Just cos he's a man 🤣

[Unit1]

From my personal experience with my toxic family (i don't have a family I must say), yes. She fought with every family member roughly equally. I got better at hiding and sneaking to receive less often of it.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think women tend to start fights more in general whether it be with their kids or the boyfriend/husbands.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the woman. If it’s a good woman then she isn’t going to be causing problems just to cause them. A lot of people not just women who start a lot of drama. Are starting drama to get the attention off of themselves and attack someone else.

No relationship is perfect and being with someone for a long time there will be problems at some point. But I just refuse to waste time with women like this. Women that no matter what you do she will never be happy. I’ve seen people in these kind of relationships and it’s pure misery.

I want someone whose going to be a good mom and wife. Absolutely discipline is important for children. But not ruining the relationship.

[katiesmuff]

Your using that word women very loosely here! Many women like myself are have very few arguments with anybody.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think most women start unnecessary fights with their partners. Why do you think so?

[DrPepper12]

Women have seemingly odd concerns and hangups that can be combative or tension causing. I think any age could be in the blast zone.

[Anonymous]

I think so. I mean not every single woman does that. But I think more so women who have girls, especially when they become teenagers.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, they get into arguments with their kids.

[clampfan101]

Depends on the person, but on average I imagine so.

[MrGSpotHer]

I don't stwy around bitchy women or men to find out

[Pegases]

Speaking from experience, yes.

[NathanDavis]

case by case scenario...

[MK1997]

Yes but it's not a womans thing men are the same

[Bklynbadboy12]

That I don't know my mom and dad never had fights

[eagle1951]

probably

[Anonymous]

Definitely.