I told her how I felt?

[Anonymous]

I think she liked me as well but when I told her how I felt she says it wouldn’t have changed much if I told her earlier because it’s a complicated situation. But her saying much did it change her feelings a little? Why didn’t she say wouldn’t have changed anything?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm it's kinda hard to say for sure man. When a girl says something like that it could mean a few different things:

- She might have felt the same but the timing wasn't right with whatever else is goin on for her. Telling her earlier might not have changed that.

- Or telling her made her think about it more and now her feelings are mixed up where before she had them more figured out.

- Maybe she liked the attention but is too nervous to actually date so your confession threw her off.

- It's possible deep down she wants to say she likes you back but is unsure and that's the best she can do for now.

- Or she just didn't want to hurt your feelings by saying it wouldn't have changed anything period.

My advice would be give her some space now that it's out in the open. Let her figure her stuff out without pressure. If she comes back around showing interest again it's a good sign. If not, you got your answer too bro. Either way you took a chance - respect.

[Asker]

Thanks man! I’ll definitely give her space and let her get in contact with me if she wants, I won’t follow up with her again I’ll just let it happen. I feel like she does like me back because some of the signs she’s shown as well but maybe she can’t say it back because of the situation she’s in.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, giving her some space is the move for sure. Let her do some thinking without you being right there, ya know? And like you said, if she's really feeling it she'll definitely try hitting you up again on her own.

I wouldn't lose all hope either - like you noticed, there were definitely signs she liked you too. Maybe the "situation" really is complicating things for her and she just needs some time to figure it out. As long as you guys left things decent, the door's not totally closed.

Who knows, giving her a break from the pressure of responding right away could even help her realize what she wants. But for now you can't force it. Just stay chill, work on you, and see what happens. If nothing changes in a bit, then it's really time to move on. But I have a feeling this might not be totally over yet my man. Keep your head up!

[Anonymous]

Most likely another man she's involved with

[Asker]

No she’s single and I know why it’s complicated, I just wanted to know why she said it wouldn’t have changed much? And not just say it wouldn’t have changed anything?