This girl is really pretty yet doesn't seem to post anything to her social media?

[Anonymous]

like i'd even say she is exceptionally good looking , like model good looks , blonde , tall / fit body. i meet her cause she was a server at a place i go to and knew some of her friends there

but she doesn't seem to post any pictures of herself , her instagram had like nothing and even uses an old profile picture. she also had a page on vsco with a couple pictures but not much there either

does she even know she is so good looking? does she lack self confidence or not want to publically show her self off?

[ProbablyClueless]

Social media posting is a paradox. The women who really enjoy posting pictures of themselves are usually the most insecure.

The fact this woman isn't posting is probably more a sign that she DOES know she's good looking.

[Asker]

i know have a hard time believing she's not aware of herself , she doesn't have a boyfriend and at start of summer seemed somewhat insecure of herself but has fitted in at that job since and well liked

[Iron_Man]

Does it really matter if somebody post stories or not before there was never any social media? if you want to talk to her message her

[Asker]

i've talked to her a lot there in person

[Iron_Man]

Ask her for a date

[Asker]

i'd like to think of something we could do outside the place she works , but running out of ideas and time ( she is only there till end of August as its a summertime hot spot type restaurant )

[Iron_Man]

Start off with a movie and dinner. Do you have any sporting events in your area that you could take her to like NFL college football baseball

[Asker]

we don't even have a movie theatre in our town it closed during covid and never re opened , the bowling alley also just closed too

is a lot of restaurants but have to be a different one than where she worked or one where we didn't know a lot of the staff personally ( being a smaller town type scene )

[Iron_Man]

I can’t stand small towns like that move out of there

[Asker]

in the fall she is going to be in another city for school , perhaps i could try and see her there somehow?

but feel best chance to do something with her is now , when she is rate here and not really doing much other than work and she plays soccer on Monday night

[Anonymous]

Perhaps she just doesn't like being the centre of attention all the time; there are plenty of people like her on social media.

[Anonymous]

i have social media where i don't post much and then i have private accounts where i post sexy stuff

[Asker]

i have seen girls who have spam or second instagram accounts , so is possible she had another one and i just haven't seen it yet but likely to be private even if i do find it

she also had a page on tik tok but nothing there either , not 1 video or anything

[Opinion Owner]

i would get hit on too much if i posted things on my public account

[Asker]

its not just that she isn't posting sexy stuff like other girls, isn't even like pictures of her with girlfriend's or at parties or even the restaurant where she works , not even basic head shot type pics or anything

its not like she is the only girl in our small city of 20,000 , doubt she'd get many private messages from random guys just for posting basic pictures of herself and even if she did that kind of thing happens on social media to girls even if they aren't as good looking as she is