me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 5 months and she still has her Facebook as single. We now live together but she has never really posted us on any of her accounts, every now and then she will “hint” she has a boyfriend but will never picture us. She says it’s because her baby daddy would get mad because he’s crazy. Is this a red flag?
Seriously, do not mess with crazy people. I don't know if it's a mental problem or a history of abuse. Just don't mess with him.
Particularly one who is the father of her child, who might like to see him no matter how he treats everyone else.
Screw social media and that guy. Did she introduced you to her friends or family? Do you stay at her house with her kid there? Does she goes out with you in public making you feel good about yourself? That's the real tests you should be worried about half a year in.
If not, ask her why? That will get you more answers and respect than a relationship status on Facebook, I would say...
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Red flag, but you can't force her to change it. Personally I'd just leave altogether since baby daddy drama is the last thing I need.
That is definitely a red flag. What does she even care ab his feelings for. If that were true she should’ve gotten a restraining order or something, someone that dangerous should not be having access to her children. I think she has hope that they will get back together or they are already having some sort of fling.
I don't know, my boyfriend and I have been together 3+ years and he hasn’t posted photos of me on Facebook or Instagram, he’ll occasionally post me on his story. He just isn’t a huge social media guy, and although I wish he would post something I know he loves me it’s just not his thing
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Five months is a long time to hide someone. I’d want answers from them.
Sounds like a red flag to me.
I mean why does she need to lie about being single?no. Get off her social media. There's no reason for you to be there.
Yes. So her baby daddy's happiness supercedes yours?
Ignore the social media garbage. It is meaningless.
The red flag is that she has a baby daddy..
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