I’m just wondering cause I have been in the past
Yes, I would. I might actually prefer to date someone who's been emotionally abused, because I feel like she, as much as anyone, needs someone to love her for who she is and be shown what's it like to be treated the way she deserves to be treated, rather than how whoever abused her had. People who survive abuse are often very strong; they have to be, or else they wouldn't make it through all that in one piece. My heart goes out to anyone who has undergone hardship of that nature.
It would give me a sense of purpose in life for me to find out more about such a person; to understand who she is and what all she's been through. I would want to do my best to understand her in the same way I long to be understood. I would want to be the kind of person that when she runs to me, it feels like coming home, to the place where she belongs and can feel at peace and comfortable. I want to be able to see all the storms she's weathered and do whatever I can to put myself on guard to ensure that she never has to experience that same level of hurt ever again. Just thinking about it brings a tear to my eye.
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I'm really sorry you've been through that Lauren. I have too back in my teens, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone!
The important thing, if it is possible is not to let what happened define who you are. By living your life in fear, it means the person who abused you, wins! I refused to allow any future relationship of mine be ruined by that manipulative, hateful and spiteful witch!.
Now I start every relationship with a clean slate. For me, the past is where it belongs, in the past!
I hope you can learn to do the same! I really do..
Everybody has been abused in one way or another, healing comes from facing it, accepting the past as it was, forgiveness and letting go.
I’d date them if they didn’t dwell on the past and chose to live In misery.
It would be a tougher journey, but if the person's worth it then perhaps. It's not like any of us is perfect, so... why not?
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I have. It can be difficult at times, you need to be patient and supportive.
Why wouldn't I? I don't think someone being abused in the past is any reason to refuse to date them, unless you're afraid of having that abuse passed along to you I guess.
Hope you'll find your The One, my darling.
And to answer your question...
Yes i would and do my best to keep her up on her feet and keep her spirit in highest limit possible. Always cuddle, kiss and take care of her like she's a baby kitten, always be there and be compassionate no matter what!Sure! My current dear princess is emotional cuz she been emotionally abused. But we handle it well it seems.
She also has a unique beautiful face, eyes that remind me the ocean and the smile and warms my heart. 🤗😘❤I don't see that as an issue. Everyone has their demons they need to deal with. The point of a partner is to be a support pillar for their partner and help them get over any past trauma.
It would depend on the abuse and how it was allowed to occur , and the impact there of on their personality.
i guess it depends how that shit effects them bc having two traumatized peeps in a relationship sounds toxic lmfao
Yes, I know all about emotional abuse, I've been there with peers from my school in America within my Middle School year. They abused me terrible.
If she a virgin then yea, if a woman is a virgin then that offset many bad things to me.
Sure. It's already slim pickings as it is. Why take them out of the running?
Sure, though I'd want to talk about it do I better understand her, and I can make sure I don't do anything that would be perceived as harmful.
Nah… I wouldn’t want to have to deal with that baggage.
Can't believe that someone had abused the sweet miss Lauren, how could they and she have a baby's heart 😌
Yes I would. I reverse all the trauma because I'm so awesome :P
Yeah i don't discriminate
Absolutely 💯
I married one and she married me.
Not if they haven’t worked through it.
Yes, we'd make a perfect fit.
I would n already doing so
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