Would you feel bad for a boy your daughter kicked in the groin if he hit her first?

[Anonymous]

I asked a similar question not long ago, but people I think were confused by the title so here is my updated question

If a boy in your daughters school hit her, and then she ended up kicking his groin, would you be angry or upset with her? Would your answer change if the boy became infertile due to the retaliation of your daughter?

I ask because it seems like a lot of people from questions I’ve read seem to never think it’s okay to hit that area or only hit that area if someone is sexually assaulting you, not just physically assaulting you

I would support her, he started it and needs to deal with the consequences

I would support her as long as no permanent injury occurs to the boy

No I wouldn’t support her, attacking that area isn’t justified based on what the boy was doing to her

[MisterWack]

I don’t have all the details essentially to make the decision.

Scenario A) Let’s say the boy accidentally bumped into her and she did it, I’d force her to apologize and make sure that she stays as far away from him as possible.

Scenario B) The boy hit her with the intent to cause her harm and she felt she needed to defend herself because she felt there was no way out unless she fought & stood up for herself, I’d be proud of her and support her 100% of the way.

Scenario C) She gets punished because all the teachers saw was her attacking him, I would stand against the school district and defend her.

[buzzword]

If someone hits you, you have to defend yourself. That said, while getting hit in the nuts hurts a lot it also makes guys really angry, and when people get really angry they tend to lose control and go overboard doing extremely violent things. So while you got to do what you got to do, you have to understand when you're in a fight a nut shot isn't going to disable a guy most of the time it's just going to fuel his rage and as a result things can get really dangerous. There are more effective ways to defend yourself. Anyone that has been in a lot of fights knows, people only tend to do things like hit other guys in the nuts or bite when they are losing really bad and they really have no good options. It's more of a move of frustration than a good fighting move.

[Wolfsreign]

I'm a huge advocate for defending yourself at any cost. If the girl doesn't do anything to stop him who says he is doing at one hit?

[Asker]

Exactly! I get it’s a tender spot for boys but as far as I’m concerned if a boy lays his hands on you, it’s all fair game

[Kaneki05]

He hit her so that's fine. But people who hit there think it's a joke like back in school were horrible people.
Because not only does it hurt it can cause actual problems down there.

[Kaneki05]

And obviously if it was a playful fighting then it's wrong to go that far. But I assume your not on about that.

[Asker]

No I mean if your daughter felt like she was really getting into an altercation with this boy if you’d feel bad about your daughter hitting him below the belt

[Kaneki05]

Exactly then it be good, he gets what he paid for. It's one of the easiest way's to fight off a man so it's the best option.

[Asker]

Yes I agree! I’ve just seen a lot of people on here say it’s never acceptable to do which is odd to me I wanted to see if people really believe that or not

[Anonymous]

If I had a daughter, I would have her practice the same martial art as me, which allows strikes to the groin, just in case she was ever bullied or attacked. I would encourage her to strike to the groin, just as hard as she possibly can, and any damage would be his problem.

[kellytheman]

I be proud of her he deserves getting kicked in the groin if he hit her. He might think twice hitting a girl and if he becomes infertile he should have thought of the consequences hitting a girl. Also he probably should not have kids if he just hits people.

[LiamJHayden]

I always use the minimal force necessary to end a threat. Without more details on weight, height, age, and other disparities between the two, nor without any info on his "hit" - slap, tap, full punch - it is difficult to ascertain if her response was appropriate.

[Asker]

Let’s say, 12 they’re both school mates, both are average build and he punched her, I’m trying to gauge if people think that attacking a groin is appropriate for a girl when someone else just physically attacks them, not attacks them sexually, because I’ve seen a lot of people on here say it’s never okay unless there is the clear threat of sexual assault

[Anonymous]

Sure. As long as you’re ok w it going the other way as well. If the girl hits him first then he has every right to defend himself.

[Asker]

Of course I think anyone has the right to defend themselves

[Finchie40]

Not at all , especially since he hit her first , so your daughter was smart to defend herself , by kicking him on the groin, hopefully it taught him a lesson not to put his hands onto a girl

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on how hard he hit her. If it was just a slap & tickle thing,. putting the boot in is going WAY THE FUCK overboard!! If he actually punched with great intent to hurt her, THEN his nuts are fair game!!

[Staximus]

It's extremely rare for a kick to the nuts to result in infertility. I would tell my daughter good job

[DJB72]

Since I'd be holding him, I'm sure that would be considered supporting her.

If my son hit a girl I'd hold him for her to take the shot as well.

[exitseven]

I would feel bad for the boy because after he got kicked in the balls he would have to deal with me.

[jahaims]

Nope

[Asker]

Nope as in you wouldn’t feel bad for the boy? Or no you wouldn’t feel comfortable with your daughter defending herself in that manner?

[DrPepper12]

Public support 100% but we still need to talk...

[In_Trance]

Gtfo troll

[Asker]

Sorry but I’m not a troll, I was curious after coming across a lot of the questions I think your referring to and wondering if people believed that defending yourself by hitting an attackers groin is never permissible, permissible if they are trying to sexually assault you or if any sort of assault sexual or physical is an appropriate time to do such a thing