Do you think women should control men?

Question

Women know what men want. But I fail often to provide. I was afraid of being in control. Now I feel like I can’t rely much on men who try to control. They just don’t do good job. I was wondering if anyone in a same situation? Do you rely on men’s decision? How does it go?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Nobody should be controlling anyone , if you find yourself having to control your man? then he isn’t the man for you period , you should only be controlling yourself and treating your partner the same way you want to be treated in return , a partner is supposed to be your team mate , you both work together as a team , so the both of you can live happy and content as much as possible together. So nobody should be controlling anyone. If someone is controlling you? , you are best to leave and go your separate ways, if that’s the case. The only time controlling is acceptable , is in the bedroom , outside the bedroom you both should be working together , spending quality time with each other , respecting each other. Following boundaries together , Boundaries are not controlling , Boundaries are set to respect each other. What you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to be the same boundaries for you as well if you want your relationship to survive. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other , not controlling each other. Just because you don’t like something your partner is doing , it doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t like something you are doing. Learning to accept each others’ flaws is what makes Love grow between 2 people , There isn’t one person on this planet that is perfect , we are all imperfect people. If someone thinks they are perfect? they are talking out their ass. So why don’t feel like you need to control your partner? What is he doing to make you want to control him?

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Nobody should control anyone relationship dynamics depend on what two people want and not everyone is looking for the same thing so keep that in mind. That’s why there is something called compatibility.

I think relationships that are transactional though never last when it’s not built on a genuine connection but rather what can I provide for you. That man or that woman will leave you in a instant if something happened to you as well as the fact if and when someone better comes along they’re gone.

These people will probably go behind your back and cheat because they’re lacking a genuine connection and many are narcissists at best and psychopaths at worst.

I’m not saying someone who wants something more traditional is automatically bad by any means but many don’t know what traditional really means and just want a easy ride in life. When in reality it is a 50/50 relationship because both people should be working equally hard in separate roles.

They just rarely work

GlitteringWorld · Accepted Answer

I don't subscribe to the idea of controlling my partner when I'm in a relationship. For me, a healthy relationship is built on mutual trust, respect, and understanding. Trying to control someone often stems from insecurity or a lack of trust, and that can ultimately damage the relationship. Instead, I believe that both partners should feel free to be themselves and make their own choices.

When you try to control someone, it can create resentment and distance. A strong relationship should be about supporting each other, not dictating how the other person should behave. Both partners should have the freedom to pursue their interests, maintain their individuality, and grow together without feeling constrained or micromanaged.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

Why should one control the other? Why do you think women should control men or men should control women?

People should work together. Slavery never lasts.. it is not natural for humans to live at the mercy of someone else.. in societies, slavery will always be abolished. Similarly, no relationship will withstand tyranny. It may last but it will be dysfunctional and weak. no one will thrive.

lightbulb27 · Answer

they do, observe the world "Man... ipulation". Women control men emotionally, the men submit by choice.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women actually do not want this at all (whether they admit it or not). In fact any of them will sh*t test men (and not even realize they are doing it) to see if the guy is tough enough to stand his ground.

But men particularly western have been bashed so hard in the past few years that they don’t know what the hell to do and/or cave in. Men are supposed to “believe all women” right?

Sure it’s easy to blame men for acting like “simps” but I believe most guys have been browbeaten into that. They that’s their only option or loneliness. Especially if they live in liberal areas that of the country.

But in reality most women do no want this. Even if they “say” they do. They don’t. You can’t reverse thousands of years of evolution with 50 years of feminism and expect to everybody to be happy.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah I already bug the shit out of men enough. Just being able to get under their skin is better than controlling them 😝

Anonymous · Answer

they already do and have been doing so for thousands of years

every now and then, large groups of men realize this and overturn their civilizations

schools today are already setting up programs to brainwash boys already and trying to groom them into good little compliant future feminists

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

God commands women to be submissive.

Ephesians 5:22-33 MEV
Wives, be submissive to your own husbands as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head and Savior of the church, which is His body. But as the church submits to Christ, so also let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

Hodow33 · Answer

I think it makes more sense for women to control men because women are better organizers, multi-task and strong enough to bear the children, then get back to business. I hate to say this but as a male, especially when we are erect, we are always prone to obey and serve women.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well it may work for dominant women but i dont think in general it will ever work... plus men dont look gud when they r being controlled... they should have their manly nature tht makes them so charismatic

Nikki1989 · Answer

Many men need all the help they can get.

Billlewis · Answer

Damn right they should. They're already doing that to a considerable degree as it is, but there's always room for Improvement;)

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Advise yes. Bit control, absolutely not. That's actually what killed chivalry. Women starting telling other women what men want, instead of men telling women what they want

kellytheman · Answer

Girls I been with want some control of the relationship what ever it is. Most guys do want to be the one who provides and make most of decisions in relationship just because he is the one taking home the bread.

patrick994 · Answer

Absolutely not, it also applies the other way around, men should not control women either.

John_Cobretti · Answer

Women suck at making decisions and leading , that's why almost every relationship is male lead , so no thank you

Anonymous · Answer

No one is happy in a relationship where the woman controls the man. The man is miserable for obvious reasons, and the woman has no respect for the man, and women in relationships with men they don't respect are always unhappy.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Women often think they know what men want, but can easily overdo it or misjudge. And women don't want men who are wimpy yes-men to their wives/girlfriends.

JosyJosy · Answer

He's a good leader, I don't control, but I steer him from time to time.

LiamJHayden · Answer

A lot of men are already controlled, although most do not recognize it.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No! Why is no relationship a partnership anymore? 🤔

lorenzomichael · Answer

When I’m rock hard she can control me as long as she likes until I’m no longer hard.

Anonymous · Answer

Where are all the femcels coming from? GAG is crawling with them.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Nature has got man physically strong , so man should b dominant

Agape93 · Answer

Fuck no. Equality, not tyranny.

ManInChains · Answer

Feminists do.  Cucks do.  Men don’t.

thearchjoker · Answer

There's a very simple answer and its no.

gatixek710 · Answer

lol. Tell me what men want.

MrTaboo · Answer

very bad idea.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

You do, when you treat us right.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

No, nor should men control women.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Sub guys dig it and like women who do

missindiana93 · Answer

Absolutely not.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YEAH THATS NOT GONNA HAPPEN

eagle1951 · Answer

good luck with that

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I like dominant girls, so yes.

Gentilegoyim189 · Answer

Never

Do you think women should control men?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you think women should control men?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.