They want to pick and select what traits of traditionalism that suits them but at same time want to dictate what men should stop pushing for in the qualities they want in a mate. Keep in mind the vast majority of males are pathetic and waste their time and attention on women who just want to be validated on social media. So in a sense women do have control of majority of men but for the minority of males with any self respect women do get pissed when these men don't adhere to their game.
For reading this I present to you the "strong, independent woman" above's insta pics who has her own bikini line in Miami.[Note: This is the first time she is getting challenge by a man that is not a pathetic beta "yes man" and you can actually see the effect it has during the interview.]
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"They want to pick and select what traits of traditionalism"
This ^ is very true. Women want equality when it benefits them, but tradition when that benefits them. Such hypocrites.
I would say they TRY to control men, but they don't WANT to control men (specifically their man). Women will test you, and if you pass these tests then they will increase their femininity by submitting to you to a greater degree. Just like children like boundaries, and thrive within them, you need to set what you're willing to accept and enforce it. If you show yourself capable and dominant in this way, nearly every woman will trust you and submit to your future leadership. If you're not comfortable leading (or believe the bs about a "partnership") then you'll always be at risk for your girl leaving you, or cheating on you.
Have your own opinions- don't go along with hers because you think it's what she wants to hear- many guys in the friendzone experience the repercussions of this all to well. "I think we're better as friends," while he responds, "yea, I agree." No; know what you want and be willing to say it. This doesn't mean every woman will want you, but the ones who do will respect you.
When a woman disrespects you, they're often testing you. When she insults you, belittles you, or otherwise acts like a brat how do you react? Women are emotional; so, responding emotionally is just adding fuel to a fire. If a woman does something like this you can "pass the test," by not letting one of these things slide, and in a firm way telling her it's not acceptable. Example: say your new girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, including guys she's slept with. If you're uncomfortable with this (as you should be) tell her so, AND tell her that you won't tolerate it. She can choose to call you a controlling jerk and run off, or she can accommodate your wish. Either way you win.
Women want strong men to depend on- if you don't show yourself to be strong and confident in what you want, how can she trust you to protect her, and choose what's best for you if the relationship becomes a family?
