Why are women so passive-aggressive?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well I wouldn't say ALL women, but most. And that is because most women today are very egocentric. I'm all for equality. But the problems is most women today don't view equality as true equality. They want to treat it as buffet and pick the things the like from it while avoiding the things they don't. This over time has his given women a skewed view of reality. Women can now earn what a man does without actually taking on the responsibility that a man does. So not only do they see no need for a man financially (even they'll accept it😆) they do not accept or that financial gains require hard work and sacrifice to achieve. As a result women have no understanding a man's struggle today. This causes her to become ambivalent towards a man's feelings. And when that happens that makes it impossible for a healthy relationship between the genders. But this DOES NOT stop a women from demanding that a man cater to hers. Over time the inability for a woman to understand why the breakdown has occurred makes her bitter. Because all she really understands at this point her emotional needs are not getting met and as a result every interaction she has with the opposite gender is coated in passive aggressive behavior. Because in her mind he needs to be punished for not doing what she sees in her mind as his job.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It’s not all women, it’s just childish women who cannot communicate properly. People who are passive aggressive are individuals who are childish as well as cowardly they lack the ability to say they have a problem sometimes being passive aggressive about unrelated stuff expecting you to be a mind reader and know what’s upsetting this person, especially when many times it’s something petty anyways. But it’s always fine when they do it that’s a sign of narcissism when someone has rules for themselves that are separate form rules they have for others.

Im just telling you don’t waste time with the brain dead hoes and people who wanna play games. Nobody is perfect but if someone is consistently acting this way drop this person like a bad habit because that's all she is. There is better women (and men for that matter for ladies dealing with passive aggressive men) out there then that kind of trash.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

Maybe if you millennial men would stop putting your mommy first and focus more on your wife or girlfriend wouldn't have to be so aggressive. Stop being a momma's boy and grow up.

thatshydork · Accepted Answer

I don’t know, why do immature men ask questions like this? The world may never know.

RingOfFire · Answer

Because they lack the most effective weapon in any negotiation which is superior physical strength. Having the advantage in physical strength is always the best position when it comes to negotiation. It works for countries, and it works for relationships.

Since women don't have that advantage, they are forced to use devious bargaining techniques such as passive aggressiveness to have any chance of success. Sexual enticement and passive aggressiveness are two of the most common techniques they use to get what they want from men.

lin123_ · Answer

I have no idea what you are talking about? I hate passive-aggressive people and cut them off as soon as i notice it. This claim could be true for female dominated workplaces though, it can get pretty toxic in there.

Kit1234 · Answer

Genuine answer? I think it's a lot to do with how we are brought up in society. It's okay for men to be visibly and verbally angry and aggressive but if a woman does it she's "hysterical" so we learn to hide it under in a more conniving way. It's not healthy communication but I think the learned manner of communication is a major thing. We tend to bottle up major anger and aggression behind sarcasm and hidden insults so we aren't shunned for being less feminine. A woman who tells is usually a woman who is more intune with her emotional side and isn't afraid to let it out. I myself struggle with the learned habit and and trying to fix it.

paledreams · Answer

Some may have good cause 🙂 like PTSD, menstrual issues, or the mental illness.
You just never know always consults a professional or even be picky and choosy who you choose to date or to bang because just like women don't settle for any guy with red flags 🤔 🍒

razelove · Answer

That isn't just women. The way this question is worded launches as a passive aggressive accusation on all women.

On my end I just don't stay around people who like drama and games. Since then it isn't a problem I've had in my life.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Men and women are pretty much just as aggressive as each other. The expression of that aggression is just different. When it comes to conflict resolution men use active aggression. We fight, we yell, we insinuate violence, etc. Women are precluded from using this form of conflict resolution. Therefore they use ulterior forms that are more passive. They rely on withholding interactions, societal destruction, subterfuge, etc.

It just is what it is.

236color · Answer

Women may do more passive aggressive stuff because they can't just kick your ass. That said, you told someone they AND their baby were ugly? Gee can't imagine why people aren't nice to you.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

If you have 10.000 hours of availability, then

RavVid · Answer

Women are just as aggressive as men but prefer not to be overt. Men are always aware that being aggressive can get you a punch in the face but women don't get that discouragement.

Apple1996 · Answer

Because we can't let out our aggression in other ways like men do

LiamJHayden · Answer

I notice a lot of  people  from our generation are not direct, but are instead passive-aggressive. I do not usually see this in older people.

thegreenyogi · Answer

It depends on the woman. But usually it's because of past un resolved issues that you aren't even aware of.

Titus_of_Ultramar · Answer

Only the immature and/or unintelligent bitchy ones who lack communication skills. Smart and Communicative woman don't do this shit as they just say what needs to be said instead of having the whole passive-aggressive pretence.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It's in their nature.. They can't brute force their way through things, so they gotta manipulate events just a tiny bit..

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Well, they're not exactly going to punch you in the face are they?

noohair · Answer

Most women can't physically force most guys to do what they want. So the do what they can to manipulate.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

They aren't exactly physically equipped to handle a direct confrontation

jack1924 · Answer

Who said that, is it you? You are making me feel nauseous

Juxtapose · Answer

Because they can't win in a straight fight so they play games.

elaphe · Answer

Not all women are. You should find better women with which to associate.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason you are so passive aggressive

Vegasrunner · Answer

They can't fight

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Men = women = bad

Anonymous · Answer

This is not true, kid

Emmytexrex · Answer

Not all of them

Anonymous · Answer

Edge is hot.

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